re: Military girlfriend/wife/fiance

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ thank you for not being judgemental. but anyways we were gonna write but he said he really wouldnt ... [snip!] ... my letter he'll be in my arms. hes not in basic im not 100% sure what hes in fort louis for but i know its basic like training”

Yea most the time training means....Iraq trip soon! Not all the time though but MOST!

Quoting LittleTee22 ☮:“ Waaaaait a sec. Your boyfriend doesn't care that you sleep with other people until he gets back? You ... [snip!] ... help you but that's just disrespectful. I wouldn't stay with anyone who said they didn't care if I slept with other people.  ”

Wise you are, LittleTee!

When someone says they don't care if you do something it's because they're hoping you won't care if they do it either.

honestly i know he wont cheat and i think he was testing me as well as his exwife when he said that.

Quoting *Arrogant Cocksucker!*:“ A whole month too ...man. I thought I was doing good”

I would kill for this to get some bootay after a month.

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ honestly i know he wont cheat and i think he was testing me as well as his exwife when he said that.”

I think if you have to test someone and not just trust to begin with then it's not an ideal relationship.

Quoting AQUAmarine:“ I would kill for this to get some bootay after a month.”

I dream of bootay  
I forget what men parts look like lol

Quoting AQUAmarine:“ I think if you have to test someone and not just trust to begin with then it's not an ideal relationship.”

True

it does get easier and harder, my husband recently came home form a 7 month deployment and a 5 month old son. i was SO used to having my routine and things set my way, he came home and kinda messed it up ( not on purpose) i love him with all my heart but i was sjust so adjusting to being alone, now hes been back for a while and going underway again and im don't want him to

Quoting AQUAmarine:“ I think if you have to test someone and not just trust to begin with then it's not an ideal relationship.”

i dont believe that at all. i have tested men before and they have tested me. all the ones who failed the tests didnt last. but can we get back to spicing up the sex life on the night of august 4th when my soldier comes home? cuz by then im gonna be dying for sex. its been 2 days and im dying. lol

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ thank you for not being judgemental. but anyways we were gonna write but he said he really wouldnt ... [snip!] ... my letter he'll be in my arms. hes not in basic im not 100% sure what hes in fort louis for but i know its basic like training”

Awe Will he be able to call or anything? And your welcome it's your life.

Quoting AriJ&?sMommy:“ I still have my husbands letters from boot camp from 3 years ago and read them during deployments! ... [snip!] ... remember waiting what seemed like forever for him to write the first one lol. Hmmm he seemed so much sweeter in those days lol”

XD Yah know that feeling it seems like the Millitarty takes a lot of the sweetness out of them T_T

Spicing up the sex life?

Churn the butter.  

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ honestly i know he wont cheat and i think he was testing me as well as his exwife when he said that.”

If he is still at the testing stage how do you know he wont cheat on you? Like I said earlier I dont know you or him so I cant really say for sure....but my friend just found out her husband of 5 years cheated on her in Iraq.....this guy everyone thought FOR SURE he would never cheat but he still did.

Quoting AQUAmarine:“ I would kill for this to get some bootay after a month.”

Hey wont you be getting some soon? Lol I think bootay sucks after a long deployment though...you have to warm back up to it lol

Quoting Connor's mom♥:“ it does get easier and harder, my husband recently came home form a 7 month deployment and a 5 month ... [snip!] ... but i was sjust so adjusting to being alone, now hes been back for a while and going underway again and im don't want him to”

Yea that was a hard part for me....adjusting to him being back after being alone for so long!!!