i need sooo much help...
posted 4th Jul
july 4th a very bad day. baby daddy is drunk and taking it out on everyone. i understand he's drunk but not like this. he almost killed me and and his cousin in the car. two more months till i have the baby. and i guess now im doing it alone. the worst day of my life. i dont know what to do. im thinking this was the last night im ever gonna see him again. im crying my heart out cause now i have no father for my baby, no place to go, no money. nothing. i been with him for two years. should i leave or should i stay? my head says leave but my heart says stay. please help. i just need someone to talk to.. thanks for reading
quoteposted 4th Jul
Most of the time we end up following our heart and really should follow our head. We know what we should do, but don't always do it. Good Luck, things will turn out ok
quoteposted 4th Jul
Has this been an ongoing problem? Have you had to discuss his drinking with him before? if so, then i would say he is not going to change. BUT if this was an isolated incident, maybe its going to take you and his cousin or someone talking to him when he is sober to open his eyes. But yes, follow your head and do what will be safest for you and baby. and remember, TONS of women havedone it by themselves before. it will suck, but you will survive.
quoteposted 4th Jul
If he's being violent, then you need to leave. Trust me, I lived with an abusive alcoholic for 4 years. That is no place to raise a baby. You will figure something out honey. There is tons of support and assistance out there for single moms. It won't be easy, but at least you and your baby will be safe.
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