irresponsible piece of sh*t

So.. the hubby is military.. he works at 4 am.. in an armory full of guns and ammo.. today is supposed to be a family day but he's drinking.. for which he can lose a stripe or two for.. meaning he'll lose pay.. or he could get kicked out.. then they are playing around with fire works.. he takes one lights it and holds it by his crotch until it goes off.. " I thought it shot straight out" he says  .. then when a friend of ours freaks out and says "your not gonna kill my husband in the process of your stupidity" my husband blows up on her and then throws a beer .. that almost hit Jeremiah.. I was standing out in the parking lot about to leave because OBVIOUSLY i don't want my son around them if they are going to be stupid with fire works.... they were lighting them off in a wooded area instead of way out in the open parking lot..   Anyway .. if you know my story.. i think this is the end of the line.. and he has perfect timing too because we are driving home to oklahoma on the 15th.. i think i'm just gonna stay.. he obviously cares more about himself.. he's still out there with them.. drinking.. even though he knows i'm upset.. and that i wanted to go see the fire works. .. i mean seriously .. this is Jeremiah's first 4th.. where should chris be??? with his family.. having a good time.. but he ruined it.. i hate him 

edited to add : he blew a whole all the way through to his pants.. he said it's just a 10 dollar shirt..    

awww it will be ok. It is not right what he is doing, but maybe you should call him in and talk about it before making any rash decisions about leaving him, unless there has been prior experiances like this one...

Quoting egyptiangodss:“ So.. the hubby is military.. he works at 4 am.. in an armory full of guns and ammo.. today is supposed ... [snip!] ... edited to add : he blew a whole all the way through to his pants.. he said it's just a 10 dollar shirt..    ”

yeah, he was being an ass. Maybe he does need to be knocked down a peg or two to learn not to act like a retard. I know I shouldn't say that about your husband, but its awful he was acting so childish.

Quoting I Can Do This:“ awww it will be ok. It is not right what he is doing, but maybe you should call him in and talk about ... [snip!] ... and talk about it before making any rash decisions about leaving him, unless there has been prior experiances like this one...”

What!?! LEAVE HIM NOW!!! If I read one more of these posts about fucking cockhead men doing stupid shit and the chicks are like "Oh no, what do I do?!?" I'm going to lose it. Men treat you like shit because you let them. Get some self respect and don't be with somebody so goddam STUPID!!!!!

awww, our babies have the same birthday, when were you due?
I was due the 16th but was induced too.
he was born at 9:59 pm.

Quoting Noah.:“ awww, our babies have the same birthday, when were you due? I was due the 16th but was induced too. he was born at 9:59 pm.”

well i had like 50 million due dates.. but the last one they said was may 20th.. i did notice that they were born on the same day   they'll be 9 weeks tomorrow   time goes by so fast

Sorry you have to deal with an ass.   Men suck most of the time.

he came home yellin all at me.. I'm the bitch.. and i'm the one who is wrong..   oh and he hates me and his son.. i asked him how he could hate an innocent child.. he said because he came out of me.. oh he also called me a hairy bitch.. lol.. whatever.. he'll never be able to take back the fact that he said he hated our son.. and i will never ever ever forgive him for that.. call me all the names you want.. and say what you will to me.. but don't bring my innocent child into it..

That is just wrong, no one deserves that.

Quoting egyptiangodss:“ he came home yellin all at me.. I'm the bitch.. and i'm the one who is wrong..   oh and he hates ... [snip!] ... him for that.. call me all the names you want.. and say what you will to me.. but don't bring my innocent child into it..”

That makes me so sad that he would say that about that poor little guy. Leave his ass you and your son deserve way better.