What the hell

Like I'm getting so pissed off with my friend. I'm about to freak. She was pregnant around the same time I was during dec. Our school has a winterball dance and I was there and found out she was pregnant too. I was farther along then her. Well she went through some issues with her mom because she had ankle surgery again and her mother didn't tell the doctors anything. Which really pissed me that fuck off because she should have said something. Well now months later she's still pregnant and hasn't done anything about it. Hasn't gone to the doctor or anything. & It's pissing me off so bad I want her to understand you can't play with a child's life like this. Because I would do anything in this world to have my son Lavon back and she's just fucking around and partying

Thatsreally sad, and extremely selfish of her. Its hard knowing theres really not much you can do about the situation.. maybe just pray for her and the child.. and I'm sorry about your baby.

Quoting beautifuLady:“ Thatsreally sad, and extremely selfish of her. Its hard knowing theres really not much you can do about the situation.. maybe just pray for her and the child.. and I'm sorry about your baby.”

Like I'm trying to talk to her in a "nice" way.... i'm trying.... & my son is some where nice.

i wouldnt tell her nicely, i would tell her how it is!
has she told her parents shes pregnant? if she found out she was preg in dec that makes her at least 32weeks!!

Her body and her pregnancy. She doesnt have to go to a doctor if she doesnt want to. Its not playing with a child's life to not have someone watching the pregnancy. The doctors dont do much other then monitor you anyways and anything else you have a right to refuse even when you are seeing them.

Quoting hazyl ♥'s rico:“ i wouldnt tell her nicely, i would tell her how it is! has she told her parents shes pregnant? if she found out she was preg in dec that makes her at least 32weeks!!”

Yeah that does make her around either end of her 2nd term or start of 3rd. it's all messed up to me.

I would tell her not so nicely to go get checked out.... and ask her what she is going to do once the baby gets here... I mean I don't want to be mean or rude, but its generally girls that don't go to the drs or tell anyone that they are pregnant that end up dumping thier baby in a trash can or something... talk to her and tell her how you feel