telling parents we are pregnant

so tonights the night we are telling my fiance's parents we are expecting and i am scared shitless (sorry ) my heart is pounding cause i have know idea what his folks are going to say uhhh i kno i may be over reaccting but thats the type of person i am i overreacct alot and that stresses me out any advice 

Quoting Stephanie & kyle:“ so tonights the night we are telling my fiance's parents we are expecting and i am scared shitless (sorry ... [snip!] ... uhhh i kno i may be over reaccting but thats the type of person i am i overreacct alot and that stresses me out any advice ”

Umm just tell them, they are going to find out one way or another!

i was a nervous reck when i thought about tell my dad!! i didnt even mean to tell him when i did!! i sent a text message by acciedent...a week before i wrote one and save it to my draft just in case i got enough balls to tell him..but i acciedently sent it...i was so scared!! he took it better than i thought..so im sure everything will be ok!! they might be alil more upset that u waited this long to tell them!1 just take a deep breath!! things will be fine!!

Quoting randellya:“ i was a nervous reck when i thought about tell my dad!! i didnt even mean to tell him when i did!! i ... [snip!] ... be ok!! they might be alil more upset that u waited this long to tell them!1 just take a deep breath!! things will be fine!!”

i kno they would find out later even if i dont tell them tonight but i know they would be more upset we didnt tell them before so i dont kno i mean we are telling them its more i am afriad because i kno what they will say...you kno the usual your young your not ready

here's a good thread
http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about92777.html


and you're twenty! you and him can TOTALLY do this, don't let them bring you down.
Just think, 150 years ago, you'd have 3 kids by now. and probably a few that didn't survive.. so more like 5   

I was married a year and a half when we got pregnant. I was scared to tell my parents too because my nephew was stillborn last July, one day before I'm due actually. But my dad was more excited than ever and had to tell everyone he knew right away and my mom took it pretty good i guess. She's going to all my appointments with me anymore too! My in-laws kept saying "we don't want to be grandparents till were 50" which isn't for like 8 more years! So naturally I figured they would take it rough, but they were actually excited. Don't worry! You'll be fine and it will be ok.

Quoting ~(Breanna)~:“ here's a good thread http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about92777.html and you're twenty! you and him can ... [snip!] ... Just think, 150 years ago, you'd have 3 kids by now. and probably a few that didn't survive.. so more like 5   ”

lol wow that funny but no i understand

Quoting Becky~13 days left!:“ I was married a year and a half when we got pregnant. I was scared to tell my parents too because my ... [snip!] ... So naturally I figured they would take it rough, but they were actually excited. Don't worry! You'll be fine and it will be ok.”

so what if his parents already said they dont wanna hear that i am pregnant

They say things like that at first, but with time (sometimes even just days), they get excited, especially once they know if it's a boy or a girl. My husbands parents kept saying things like "you guys better not have any kids til were 50" and "you don't need a kid" and "you're too young". That all changed as soon as they heard "I'm pregnant and you're gonna have a grandbaby in July."

Quoting Becky~13 days left!:“ They say things like that at first, but with time (sometimes even just days), they get excited, especially ... [snip!] ... a kid" and "you're too young". That all changed as soon as they heard "I'm pregnant and you're gonna have a grandbaby in July."”

im sure they will be happy but not any time soon

Quoting Stephanie & kyle:“ im sure they will be happy but not any time soon”

Just don't get upset if they don't take it that well at first. Keep an open mind and use your fiance for support  

As long as you are self supporting (completely) then just tell them that you cannot deal with any negativity right now. That you appreciate their concern, but what is done is done and you are prepared to handle the consequences, you are happy.

I know it hurts when people are negative, but it's really their problem.

Quoting gnome:“ As long as you are self supporting (completely) then just tell them that you cannot deal with any negativity ... [snip!] ... prepared to handle the consequences, you are happy. I know it hurts when people are negative, but it's really their problem.”

see i cry easy and not just because i am pregnant its just me so i kno if they start yelling uh its over here come the tears

Quoting Stephanie & kyle:“ see i cry easy and not just because i am pregnant its just me so i kno if they start yelling uh its over here come the tears”

Oh I am the same way! I cannot handle confrontation, displeasure, any of that. What you have to do is start acting tough before you get too worked up and then leave before you start crying. Then cry in the car.

My Mom Gave Me The Best Advice On Telling My Dad " Say It Proudly And Be Happy About It" Otherwise You'll Be Doubted..Same Goes With Telling Anyone..

Although I Still Havent Gotten The Guts To Tell Him LoL.

Maybe I'll Just Show Up At His Door With A Kid Someday