WTF is wrong w/me?

Mike's dad got married today and I wasn't invited. (No one knew about it till they got there, but you'd think they'd say for me to come too right?) Now he's at his best friend's house partying because his best friend's family is here from Chicago. And I'm sitting here crying. He left me a note saying how "all the family was there" Am I not his family? Their family? Did I not just have his son? His dad's first grandchild? But I'm not "family" enough to be invited to his wedding? I guess not. Now it's "man time w/the brothers" and he "can come get me if I want" Like I want his drunk ass to come get the baby and I to sit in the house while they're all outside having a fire. He was supposed to be home @ 2 to watch the baby while my grandma took me shopping for my birthday. But I guess I see where his priorities lie now. With his "family" and the "men".

  i would be pissed.

im sorry this is happing to you.

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you could join in the in laws vent!

Quoting Erica [=)]:“ http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about262973.html you could join in the in laws vent!”

Eh, I'll get over it. It's really not even them I'm pissed at. More Mike, for making me feel like I'm not as important as his family and friends.

Quoting AndeeLee:“ Eh, I'll get over it. It's really not even them I'm pissed at. More Mike, for making me feel like I'm not as important as his family and friends.”

yeah. i get what you mean, i feel like my fiance is more my family, then my actual family, because were closer.

Quoting Erica [=)]:“ yeah. i get what you mean, i feel like my fiance is more my family, then my actual family, because were closer.”

Right. We've had their babies. You'd think that'd put a person a lil higher on the totem pole. LOL

Quoting AndeeLee:“ Right. We've had their babies. You'd think that'd put a person a lil higher on the totem pole. LOL”

seriously!!

Sorry I would be pissed at him and the rest of the family for leaving you out. Didn't they come by earlier and say that dad wanted to see him and here you thought that something was wrong and worried. And he should have been pissed at them for leaving you out.

Quoting CrazyMama1:“ Sorry I would be pissed at him and the rest of the family for leaving you out. Didn't they come by earlier ... [snip!] ... see him and here you thought that something was wrong and worried. And he should have been pissed at them for leaving you out.”

Yeah, I was all worried that something had happened to their little brother in the Navy. He says, "Oh if I would have known they were getting married I would have made sure you were there! Jeremy knew but didn't tell me!" Well, that makes me really want to go to Jeremy's wedding in a few weeks!  

im sorry thats very rude of his father to do to you. are you guys living together? we had something similar happen like that to one of my cusins girlfriends. the reason why they didn't invite her to my uncles wedding was because they were in a realtionship, but they werent living together. or anything. they do have a baby together. but i guess my aunt and uncle thought that wasn't a reason to consider the poor girl family. i thought it was really mean and rude not to invite the girl afterall the baby is their grandchild. (some people are really unclassy and have no manners) 

Quoting ~Leslye~:“ im sorry thats very rude of his father to do to you. are you guys living together? we had something similar ... [snip!] ... rude not to invite the girl afterall the baby is their grandchild. (some people are really unclassy and have no manners) ”

Yeah we live together. We have for over a year. It's not like I'm someone new. I guess I AM the newest one though. His youngest brother is married and they've been together 7 yrs, married 2, and his middle brother will be married in less than a month and they've been together like 3 years. We just live together and have a baby. I didn't think they had any problem w/me, but I guess I was wrong.

Quoting AndeeLee:“ Yeah we live together. We have for over a year. It's not like I'm someone new. I guess I AM the newest ... [snip!] ... like 3 years. We just live together and have a baby. I didn't think they had any problem w/me, but I guess I was wrong.”

Even if you were a new girl, your still the mother of their grandchild. i would be so pissed. im sorry that you have to go thru this. you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and how that was mean of his family. your boyfriend should stand by your side. afterall you are the mother of his child and that makes the 3 of you a family.

Quoting AndeeLee:“ Mike's dad got married today and I wasn't invited. (No one knew about it till they got there, but you'd ... [snip!] ... my grandma took me shopping for my birthday. But I guess I see where his priorities lie now. With his "family" and the "men".”

The only way you are going to win this is if Mike takes your side. When his family invites him somewhere, he has to bring you. They will get the hint. But Mike has to back you. I agree that your anger lies with Mike. He should be mad at what his 'family' did to you.