VENT ABOUT HUSBAND!!!!

okay so my husband, who i love to death is gsooooooooooooooo aggravating! he wanted to buy and build a new computer(hes a computer nerd,gamer, all that good stuff) told me it was gonna cost about 1500$ so i told him lets wait and save up some more money, well he told me he was looking online and all the parts dropped down to like 800$ so we ordered the parts but still needed the case and power supply..thats like 200.. som im like " okay we save 500"..well he found out that 2 of his parts for some reason didn't get ordered...(and no he didn't lie about the price) i was the one who ordered them and i don'tk now why they didn't get ordered... so last night(while i was drunk) he said he asked me and i said we could order it ( i was drunk and i talk in my sleep so i dont remmeber saying yes) and no im kinda agrravated..well this morning, he woke up at 5 to get ready for work, i get up and come out ot the living room and hes on the friggin website(still sittin in PJ's looking at MORe STUFF) hes obsessed with it and its driving me NUTS.. im bout to just send the stuff back, put the money back in savings and tell him to deal wit hit...grrrrr..... sry ladies im just so agravated.

Quoting Connor's mom♥:“ okay so my husband, who i love to death is gsooooooooooooooo aggravating! he wanted to buy and build ... [snip!] ... send the stuff back, put the money back in savings and tell him to deal wit hit...grrrrr..... sry ladies im just so agravated.”

LOL That sounds familiar! My hubby is the same way, if he isn't looking at new games he is looking at parts to buy! lol Don't let me start with WOW! He is always on that game or on the website, its freaking aggrivating.

but oh I love him so much........

Lol.

Mine is obsessed with getting a Psp.

=P

My boyfriend is the same way... well sort of.. he sits on the computer all day long, looking at useless stuff, and its sooooo irritating! OMG.. i yell at him constantly, does he listen? NO! lol... i feel for ya

its not just that.. i just got out of the navy and we took like a 3000 a month pay cut and im trying to save for connor and stuff that we need like emergency like " omg the car broke down" and he doesn't even care... its lall about hiscomputer computer computer computer...aaaah

I know how you feel...my SO buys a Sony 3 game AT LEAST once a fortnight, and they're about $100. Then he decided he was going to buy a computer because he closed his savings account which had $3000 in it. So he bought the computer, and I'm fine with that because he really wants to get into game development and needs a fast computer for that. But it really pissed me off when we were shopping and I wanted to get some baby stuff and he said "Okay, but nothing over $25". And then he went and bought ANOTHER PS3 game...I'm unemployed and get about $100 a fortnight from the government, but that goes straight to rent & bills so I pretty much live off of his money. But he made up for it the other day after he bought the computer. We went and bought a mattress for the cot, a baby bath, a play mat and some clothes.

I just keep reminding myself that pretty soon neither of us will be able to indulge in these kind of things, so I keep telling him that once the baby is here he'll have to stop wasting so much money but for now I just let him enjoy it.

And men always complain about women spending money   At least we spend money on useful things, like things for the house that everybody can use  

well hes wantedthe comuter since before we were married and i know that, but at the same time, our bills were based off of 2 incomes, and now its one and its hard enough.. not to mention baby stuff... i mean were not poor but i would like to keep money in savings as much as possible

Quoting Connor's mom♥:“ well hes wantedthe comuter since before we were married and i know that, but at the same time, our bills ... [snip!] ... hard enough.. not to mention baby stuff... i mean were not poor but i would like to keep money in savings as much as possible”

That changes it a bit then, I can see why you'd be pissed. My SO and I have been budgeting from one income so we know how much we can blow. But since you're both used to two incomes he should really be careful about where the money goes.

yeh.. i mean i know he wants it and im not mad about that, i want him to have his computer but he has a perfectly good laptop, as do i, so why the desktop?..

Quoting Connor's mom♥:“ its not just that.. i just got out of the navy and we took like a 3000 a month pay cut and im trying ... [snip!] ... like " omg the car broke down" and he doesn't even care... its lall about hiscomputer computer computer computer...aaaah”

I would send it all back. No joke.

And I'd tell him if he wants the desktop then he needs to sell his laptop first. It's one or the other...he can't have 2 computers to himself. It's too much. Esp being down to 1 pay check.

Quoting Connor's mom♥:“ yeh.. i mean i know he wants it and im not mad about that, i want him to have his computer but he has a perfectly good laptop, as do i, so why the desktop?..”

desktops can hold better a/v boards and motherboards...so it can handle games better than laptops.