So nervous

I am having my C section in nine days, July 14th. I am so nervous that something bad is going to happen. I have read some posts on here where women had still borns, or the umbillical cord was wrapped around the babies kneck. I feel so bad for them, and my heart just aches for what they are going through. Now I cannot seem to get these fears out of my head. Does anyone else feel this way?

Quoting Kperry143:“ I am having my C section in nine days, July 14th. I am so nervous that something bad is going to happen. ... [snip!] ... aches for what they are going through. Now I cannot seem to get these fears out of my head. Does anyone else feel this way?”

Its normal no matter how many babies you have and no matter how it comes in to the world to have these fears !

I have that fear too..... All I can think to do is not read the posts (I know how aweful that sounds) and just hope and pray that everything is going ok in my belly. And just reasure yourself with the kicks and hiccups and stuff like that! That's what I do, but like I said I still have those worries no matter what. Good luck on your c section.

i have the same fears... along with fears about her not being healthy because if anything is wrong I know I will blame myself... its normal and you arent alone...

i am totally dealing with this too!!! I read one earlier today where a girl delivered two days before her due date to a stillborn who had the cord wrapped around his neck twice! i guess she noticed reduced kick counts and went in and couldnt find a heart beat. I felt so bad for her. I worry every second im awake. Its so hard not to... I cant imagine getting all the way through this pregnancy just to have that happen. My heart aches for her! DOes anyone know the statistics on that actually happening?