re: i'm already feeling it

Its suffering & loss...it doesnt spell out what you have to be suffering from in order to post here. Yeah, I can see why people may be offended, however she is in her rights to post here.

Quoting Mumma Karrin:“ why the hell did you post this in S&L!!!!! All you talk about is having an abortion and not wanting ... [snip!] ... and stop been so selfish..... Your right in giving the baby up for adoption you should have posted this in a different forum!”

hmmm suffering and loss. i didn't know there was a criteria, but i don't know giving my baby that ilove away because it's the "right thing to do" as you say, well maybe i take that as a loss.
and maybe i'm suffering from it.

if you read it slowly it might make sense. but you have to pull your head out of your ass first.

Quoting Mumma Karrin:“ Your right on the money........... I am offended this is a forum for suffering and loss........ I lost ... [snip!] ... and doesnt give a rats arse about it at all and is going to give it up for adoption..... There are other places to post this!”

that's exactly what my intentwas. to throw it in your faces.  i understand people have lost their babies and believe me i feel terrible. i didn't know what it was like to love or want a baby, and that's why i was going to terminate. holy f*cking shit. we all experience things individually, and you don't know if i'm hurting inside or not. soyou think you're offended? i'm giving my baby up, and i came here because didn't know where else to go. it's so hypocritical for you to say that you're offended by my post, when you're the one insluting it and jumping down my throat when i'm going through a hard time.

congratulations on your pregnancy by the way.

Quoting oddish:“ that's exactly what my intentwas. to throw it in your faces.  i understand people have lost their ... [snip!] ... insluting it and jumping down my throat when i'm going through a hard time. congratulations on your pregnancy by the way.”

I am not attacking first off but before you post something like that in here again (about abortion) you might wanna put something in the title say might be offensive to some because most of us in this thread have lost children and it is offensive to people who lost their children but if you are suffering in some way or another you do have a right to post here but like I said....post a warning. I for one am against abortion but thats my own personal feelings and you have your own of course. I do hope you are not giving up your baby for a man though because that man may not be there forever but your child will love you unconditionally.

Please tell me if keeping it is an option? I read your post right before I went to bed and have been thinking of your situation all night. Sounds like you'd like to keep it. Any chance of working that out?

Please trust me about the boyfriend thing. Highschool loves seldom amount to anything. He may seem like the world now, but there is so much more to life. Don't let your relationship with him be the deal breaker.

I would just consider another family...

IMO, it sounds like you might be in love with your baby for awhile, and then go back to missing your "childhood" and start to resent your child...

And if you don't want your baby to grow up without a father, why not give them to a set of parents who can provide your baby with everything they need?

- Jess

Quoting MommyInTheMaking:“ I would just consider another family... IMO, it sounds like you might be in love with your baby for ... [snip!] ... grow up without a father, why not give them to a set of parents who can provide your baby with everything they need? - Jess”

that's my fear exactly. i know that it will be hard, and i know that a guy is no reason to let go of a baby. but when it comes down to it i guess the right thing to do is adoption to a family i feel comfortable with.

it sounds like you hit the nail on the head. you're a wise woman!

Quoting ***Melz...Lollipop***:“ I am not attacking first off but before you post something like that in here again (about abortion) ... [snip!] ... giving up your baby for a man though because that man may not be there forever but your child will love you unconditionally.”

that's really good advice. and i am sorry if i offended anybody in here. it seriously wasn't what i had intended

Quoting oddish:“ that's really good advice. and i am sorry if i offended anybody in here. it seriously wasn't what i had intended”

I am not offended just cuz I know that my ways are right for me but not for others. I wish you luck with the baby and adoption!

Quoting *{Angie}*13 weeks left!:“ I am sorry i dont mean to be rude but your the one who let your boyfriend fuck you and get you in this ... [snip!] ... it or to kill it when your in your 2nd trimester, I am sorry but i dont have sympathy for people who think like you........”

I agree.
I would chose my baby over my bf,cuz i Know if he realy loved me he would stick with me even if hes not ready to grow up.
We knew things were going to change once we had the baby but we decided to keep it and stick together cuz we both made the baby.


your willing to give up your baby for a boy you that you might not even be with forver,

Your boy may change... I think once you hold that baby in your arms you will to.. but if you already know you cant give up this baby you need to say something ASAP. The adoptive parents will be hurt but the less you drag it out the better it will be for everone.