Left behind

hi. I am am new here. I am 21 weeks pregnant and the father of my child that i have been with for 7 years has told me he no longer knows if we are right for eachother. Before i got pregnant we had some problems but once we found out everything was great and then witha blink of an eye it all changed. We live together but right now i have been staying at my moms for 2 weeks now. She really has no room for me. I have been sleeping on the couch. he keeps teling me that he needs space and time to think about things. he says that he is not giving up on us. He is never home and always out and about. Before he told me this i found out that he was talking to a bartender that he met up at a local bar he frequents. He kept telling me she was just a fiendbut it didn't feel right to me because i was never mentioned. She knew nothing about me or that he has a child on the way. Since I have been at my moms he has called maybe 5 times. These times are only at night when he comes home drunk and wants to tell me his poor pitiful me's. Wheh he asks me to come over he doesn't want to talk about us just to hang out. He is still continuing to see this girl. I see his truck at the bar all the time now and he has even told me they have gone out together a few times. I feel as if i am being played a fool but i love hima nd just want a family with him. My heart is broken. I have known no other life than with him and i am scared to hav to do this alone. Please help!

u should be living at the house and sleeping in a comfy bed! he sounds like a pig...give him an ultimatum: the girl at the bar, or you. if he doesnt make the rite decision, his loss

Child support is all i can say, if he is going to act like a douche bag than you or the baby dont need him around

Quoting hisbabimama12:“ u should be living at the house and sleeping in a comfy bed! he sounds like a pig...give him an ultimatum: the girl at the bar, or you. if he doesnt make the rite decision, his loss”

I agree its her or you no exceptions!

you shouldnt be the one that is out of home. i'd tell him if he needs time to think go somewhere else to do it. ive always said that if there is no trust in a relationship that there is no point in being in one. if he has half a brain he will know what to do and should do the right thing. i would also say its me or her. you dont need him if he is going to be like that. you are so much better than that..... keep your chin up, things will work out even if they are 4 the worst it might be better in the long run. im thinking of u and wish u the best with whatever happens

Quoting Juneebug523:“ hi. I am am new here. I am 21 weeks pregnant and the father of my child that i have been with for 7 years ... [snip!] ... with him. My heart is broken. I have known no other life than with him and i am scared to hav to do this alone. Please help!”

when i had my daughter i was in the same boat it hurts very bad i was also very scared but you know what when i held my lil girl (which she is 14 now and he doesnt even have a clue what she looks like ) but nothing mattered b ut her his loss i know it is hard but keep your head up it will all work out now i have a great husband if u ever need to talk let me know i am here for u