18, pregnant, and happy

Everything is okay. I'm so happy he changed his attitude n i didnt have to do any begging for it to happen.

Best advice right now...paternity test and child support.

babies dont "fix" breaking relationships!
did you both plan to have a baby or did you just secretly get pregnant and then tell him and he left.. becuase IMO thats what it sounds like..



 

O/T: You're due on my bday!  
I'm sorry that you're a single mommy. So am I.  
Men are so sorry!  
They say they love you, then get you pregnant and leave you.  
But God will never leave us and He will help us to make it!  

Silly question, but why would you TTC before getting married, if that was your long term plan? Alot of guys will say "Oh yeah, I want to have a child with you and you be my babymomma" but when it comes down to reality they don't want it and find any way they can to get out of it.


But I agree with Kyrie, after the baby is born, file for child support and have a pat test done.

Forget him, if hes going to run out on his own baby, hes not woth having around. And he knows you didnt do that shit hes just looking for an easy out. Take him to court get a patunity (sp?) test, then get him for child support.

Im sorry guys are losers.Lol.

Quoting hisbabimama12:“ So after all this baby/marriage/family talk with my boyfriend...and me actually conceiving, my boyfriend ... [snip!] ... home. And I'm sure me being so emotional isn't good for the baby (I'm only 6 weeks). Any advice or words of wisdom welcome.”

sorry he doesnt believe you ,most hospitals give free DNA tests when the baby is first born if you cant find on that does file for child support and they will do it for free, I wish you luck and dont stress yourself out over him because its not good for you or the baby

wow. how immature, but im sorry he left you and im sorry you have to o it on your own, but its not the end of the world

from what you've said it sounds like he may be scared and looking for a way out.

Quoting Star.Lindsey:“ from what you've said it sounds like he may be scared and looking for a way out.”

I agree.
You dont need him hun.