re: child support (rant)

Quoting Momma Cutxthroat:“ ugh. I refuse to ever take her to daycare or use a babysitter or nanny. I understand that some women ... [snip!] ... to get by, but Id rather starve then let someone I dont know watch my baby. Ive seen too many of those nanny cam videos.BARF”

Exactly. My mom and Dad watch her for me when I have to work but thats it. I'm starting school on monday for medical transcription so that I can work from home. If that makes me become a hermit and never leave the house, so be it. I''ll make a decent living and won't need anybody.~!!

Quoting Zander'sMom07:“ dont stress yourself , stressing yourself will only drive you nuts and for proof all you need is a couple ... [snip!] ... letters from people who know him like friends or family stating he has an drug issue and stating other reasons why he is unfit”

Unfortunately anybody that has actually seen him do drugs was probably doing them with him so they wouldn't help me out any :\

Quoting h1p:“ Exactly. My mom and Dad watch her for me when I have to work but thats it. I'm starting school on monday ... [snip!] ... If that makes me become a hermit and never leave the house, so be it. I''ll make a decent living and won't need anybody.~!!”

I hear that! Im such an independant person and to have my fiance being the bread winner right now scares me. It really does. I NEED a job but my mom will be watching my daughter when Im working the 1-2 days a week.

Quoting Momma Cutxthroat:“ I hear that! Im such an independant person and to have my fiance being the bread winner right now scares ... [snip!] ... right now scares me. It really does. I NEED a job but my mom will be watching my daughter when Im working the 1-2 days a week.”

Thats about all i'm working right now. I have previous student loans on forebarance 'til I get my shit together. Like 90% of my money goes to the baby. I'm gonna seriously put my heart into these classes i'm taking so I can ge them done asap and get to working from home! My goal is to buy me and Tyla a house someday, and I will.  

Quoting h1p:“ Thats about all i'm working right now. I have previous student loans on forebarance 'til I get my shit ... [snip!] ... taking so I can ge them done asap and get to working from home! My goal is to buy me and Tyla a house someday, and I will.  ”

Awe! That gave me goosebumps! NO JOKE! To hear how determined you are is so precious. You can do it. Its what mommies do. =)

Quoting h1p:“ I apparently have to file for it now. My ex works where I used to work.. thats where we met. I worked ... [snip!] ... I was a good employee. Thats frreakin nuts I was so mad. still am. But hey if they get in trouble, don't say I didn't warn ya!”

Maybe they're seeing each other now.

Just wanted to add:

be careful about recording. I know here in MD, if you record aconversation, unfortunately, youu have to let the person know that you are recording it otherwise, it is inadmisable.

Believe me, I have had to learn the court system very well.  


Good luck