uuugghhh Help

My fiance is so jelous when i talk to other guys its so annoying, because he knows i dont like them or anything, it really sucks cause he barely lets me have any girl friends, everytime we go to one of are friends house he is so anti-soical, right when we get there he wants to leave.I really dont know what to do but i feel like he is really holding me back from alot of things, plus on the side of this he doesnt even have a JOB how sad is that and we have a son toghether, I sure picked a winner huh, sorry ladies any advice please, so stressed out 

ya he is controlling I dated a guy that was the same way if I didnt look down I was checking out everyguy there a guy opened the door for me once and I walked through ya I was hitting on him guys that are like that it will only get worse and could end up in physical or emotional abuse I would get out now before it gets to bad!

I would go out by myself then.

I think an argument is needed. He's gonna whine for you having... a life outside the house. You'll have to let him know you have friends and family out there. He's gonna have to deal with it. Also you may have to do the whole, "why go out with you if you're just gonna whine the entire time, its not fair" or ..something.

My boyfriend was like that and he dealt with it. I have a large and loving family that always gets together, and I wasn't gonna stop seeing them just cuz he doesnt like going out. And now he's fine with it... thank God..

Quoting DitzyMomma!!!!!:“ My fiance is so jelous when i talk to other guys its so annoying, because he knows i dont like them or ... [snip!] ... JOB how sad is that and we have a son toghether, I sure picked a winner huh, sorry ladies any advice please, so stressed out ”

I had a man like that...I took my daughter and we left. I figured we'd do better on our own! Now I'm married to a great guy living the typical american "dream"

ya im just waiting for a oppratunity to leave his ass, he doesnt even take care of his son, its so depressing knowing that ive dealed with his bs for this long.