Can Somebody help me , is he cheating on me???

i know this has nothing too do with being pregnant but i dont know what too do me and myboyfriendhave been together for two years and yesterday our electricty went out and so we stayed at my moms till it got back on well i was getting everything ready and he told me he was going to midland (another city about 15 min. away ) with his cousin and of course i said okay, well i know he's cousin has a "friend" that i get this ugly vibe off of and pluse she looked at me ugly the first time i saw her, well i asked my boyfriend if she was going he said no , so he went i called him about three times and he didnt answer the fourth time i called he answered and it was very quit , which was kinda weird , so then i came home and called him again but this time i called him twice no answered again , he called me back and said that they lost the phone then i heard some girl talking to him and all laughingi asked him if there were girls with him he was quit and then said yeah of course i got mad but it ried not to go over bored with it , then i said well what are they doing there and he didnt want to tell me, then i said well i lov eyou and he didnt tell me nothing back and hung up so i started crying and thinking so many things ,then today he said he was going to our apt. but when i looked out the window he was going the opposite way , and then he came back and told me he was going to his moms and i needed to talk to hm so i called his moms house and she said he never went over there 15 min. later he calls me from some weird number i ve never seen before i know this is long but i really need to know  :

Sounds like he isn't ready to grow up, Sit him down and talk to him straight up

im sorry, im not sure if he is cheating. but he still sounds like dirt bag boyfriend. cheating bastard or not, he's really not worth the effort. find a man that doesnt make you feel so lonely and insecure.

The answer is YES. Whatever his reason is, he is acting Stupid and he needs to get his act together and be a man to tell you what is going on. And do not believe the lies either. One way or another I hope you find out why he is being stupid.

Hunny the only two people on this earth who could figure out if he's cheating are you and him. Just tell him what you've noticed and call him on his BS. If he's a real man then he'll tell the truth. Goodluck!!!

never trust men. seriously.

BUT it is possible that he feels like you would get mad if he went to go have fun. it doesn't mean he's cheating on you he might just feel like your suffocating him. give him a little space. trust me, if a guy wants to cheat you CANT stop him. and accusing him of it and checking up behind him will only make him more irritated.

i know this from experience. my boyfriend claims im too 'clingy'. but i guess we just have different ways of showing our love. i know he hates when i ask him questions like 'checking up on him'

be his girlfriend, not his mother. all you can do is be yourself, and he should love you for you.

best of luck. and stay on your toes, but don't let him know youre paranoid. if he WAS doing something, and he knows youre catching on, hell just cover his tracks better. dont approach him on it till you have PROOF if anything

i cant give you this answer but it deff sounds like he is lieing to you. he is being stupid it sounds like. and why couldnt you go with him and his cousin is other bitchs are going.

everything you posted sounds REALLY fishy.

i wish i had some advice. but the best thing to do is communicate. let him know how you are feeling and try and find out what is going on in his mind.

just ask him straight up and if he gets really irritated about it and denies but gets really really upset about it and if he accusses yuou of cheating... there might be a possibility that he is cheating... but from what you told me, i dont know....

Girl I have the exact same problems with my BD. I even found an pic of him and another girl on her myspace! Guys lie and need there penises(sp?) chopped off lol

Quoting ツMoN!QuE!!!:“ Girl I have the exact same problems with my BD. I even found an pic of him and another girl on her myspace! Guys lie and need there penises(sp?) chopped off lol”

     oh hell no

what does your gut tell you ?  i always listen to my gut and it has never been wrong 

Quoting Em&Amber'sMomma:“ i cant give you this answer but it deff sounds like he is lieing to you. he is being stupid it sounds ... [snip!] ... but the best thing to do is communicate. let him know how you are feeling and try and find out what is going on in his mind.”

well i did try today telling him that if he goes with his cousin that i want to go because i knew she was going , cause he left again today with him , but he got all mad at me 

Quoting Mommy Casarez:“ i know this has nothing too do with being pregnant but i dont know what too do me and myboyfriendhave ... [snip!] ... 15 min. later he calls me from some weird number i ve never seen before i know this is long but i really need to know  :”

it doesnt sound good. i know what its like to call your boyfriend and to hear girls in the background and then he doesnt want to say i love you. its pretty mean. u need to tell him you arent going to put up with that sort of shit. dont stick around unless he stops... which they usually dont

Quoting ツMoN!QuE!!!:“ Girl I have the exact same problems with my BD. I even found an pic of him and another girl on her myspace! Guys lie and need there penises(sp?) chopped off lol”

drop it like it's hot!

hey ladies thanx for all your advice , but he does accuse me many times of cheating on him like today me and my mom came back from the store there was guys outside and i didnt look up at them , but i felt some one stare at me hard and it was my boyfriend i didnt even notice he was hanging out with them , then when he came in he got mad at me and said why was i looking at the guys , when i wasnt i hate this