I need some advice. about everything:)

I would like to have some advice. Six months ago I broke up with my guy. So I went out with a new guy for about a month (the father). He doesn't want to have anything to do with me or the child. My ex guy (from 6 months ago) asked me out and we talked and everything feels great between us. Like we might get back together. When should I tell him and what should I expect? But then again, all this drama has only been happening a week. Seems so much longer. 40 weeks seems impossible.

Um.
Does he know you're pregnant?

I would just be honest. If the guy really cares about you he will accept it and wont judge you. and it wont matter. and your ex, the one that doesnt want anything to do with you now, sounds like a real scum bag. Your better off without him by far!

Thats definitely something you should tell him right away if he is considering being in a relationship with you.

I think you should tell him you are expecting now so that he will know. As far as what to expect...well noone really knows. My husband married a women who had three children, all who were not his and they have been together for five years. But you know there are men out there that have childphobia and run even from their own. Hope it all works out for the best though

big time you need to tell that boy!

The father of the baby does know I am pregnant. The ex does not. I really know, in my head, that everything will be ok no matter what happens as long as my baby is healthy. In my heart, I don't want to go through this alone.

you have to be honest...and you should tell him asap, the longer you wait the more it will hurt him....if he really cares about you, it wont matter that youre pregnant he will deal with it and you will work around it. and as for youre ex...take that scumbag to court and get child support out of his ass.

Quoting salamandah:“ The father of the baby does know I am pregnant. The ex does not. I really know, in my head, that everything ... [snip!] ... everything will be ok no matter what happens as long as my baby is healthy. In my heart, I don't want to go through this alone.”

Um.

Tell him.

If he is man enough to take care of that baby, then give him a chance.

TELL HIM TELL HIM TELL HIM TELL HIM TELL HIM

You should tell him ASAP.Let him have some time to take it in,If he likes you like you think he does then nothing will stop him from being with you.And tell him your baby's father want's nothing to do with you or your child therefore the baby's father will not mess up your's and his relationship.

Thanks everyone for writing back so quickly. I am pretty sure I will tell him this weekend. I am scared but I know it is the right thing to do. I want to tell him face to face. You are all so caring and I just really appreciate it. I have been having a bad day today, no one to talk to and just really anxious about everything. I was also going to start school in September for nursing. It looks like I should put that off for a while, much as I hate it. The baby is due right in the middle of schooling.

Quoting salamandah:“ Thanks everyone for writing back so quickly. I am pretty sure I will tell him this weekend. I am scared ... [snip!] ... nursing. It looks like I should put that off for a while, much as I hate it. The baby is due right in the middle of schooling.”

Good luck!

tell your ex and if he steps up to the plate then he is a true man. Tell him and see what happens from there.

Quoting salamandah:“ Thanks everyone for writing back so quickly. I am pretty sure I will tell him this weekend. I am scared ... [snip!] ... nursing. It looks like I should put that off for a while, much as I hate it. The baby is due right in the middle of schooling.”

you can talk to your school and see if you can squeeze in classes before your due...

good luck with everything