re: ugh i hate parents

my parents arent supporting me i pay for everything myself they havent bought me anything i wanna move out but they make me feel so bad about it they i stayed.

Quoting Stephisabella:“ well my parents are trying to make it so my boyfriend can only come over once a week.But they say if ... [snip!] ... mom wants a drink my boyfriend always gets it for her and she never says thank you or anything she acts like it is owed to her.”

it should be owed to her, she is taking care of his child. he should feel like he should be helping her out. I dont think she is asking too much for some help every once in a while.

Quoting Stephisabella:“ well my parents are trying to make it so my boyfriend can only come over once a week.But they say if ... [snip!] ... mom wants a drink my boyfriend always gets it for her and she never says thank you or anything she acts like it is owed to her.”

Hell it is owed to her!! My husband and i are staying in my parents basement right now and my husband bends over backwards for my parents and does every little thing possible for them because he knows how much of a favor they are doing us!

Quoting okaygoodbye:“ it should be owed to her, she is taking care of his child. he should feel like he should be helping her out. I dont think she is asking too much for some help every once in a while. ”

she ask's everyday.And he buys dinner alot and stuff she has never takin care of my child.I take care of her kids.I have never asked her to watch my son ever.

Quoting Stephisabella:“ she ask's everyday.And he buys dinner alot and stuff she has never takin care of my child.I take care of her kids.I have never asked her to watch my son ever.”

i didnt say that she took care of your son as in watching him. she gives your son a roof over his head, and wheter you pay for everything else is besides the point. they are providing you with a place to live for you and your child.

I agree, but a little less abruptly because I know where you are coming from. It can be very frustrating. Hell I had to go back and live with ym dad, with my husband pregnant for 6 months when I was 21! I got sick, and we couldnt afford rent. It was very difficult.

The only answer is to move out. Youd be suprised how your relationship with you mom will change by simply moving out. But think about it hard before you do, its a rough world out there.Apartments are expensive, and so is child care. Food and gas will kill you, and I won't begin on electricity. My hubby and I make $30 thousand + a year and struggle sometimes with a baby.

It would help to make a financial worksheet. You can step back, and be wowed by all your mother is providing for you, just by letting you live there. I pay..

629 Rent
100 electric
85 Phone and Internet
55 Cable/sattelite
288 Car Loan
213 Car Insurance
550 Babysitter
300 gas
25 water/sewer
85 Cell phone
150 debt payment
450 groceries

It adds up fast.  

Quoting Stephisabella:“ Ugh my mom is a total bitch.I watch her kids all the time for her and my boyfriend has been spending ... [snip!] ... why i get treated like shit but they are letting her do eveything.Sorry i just had to vent because my parents are so stupid.”

honey, I'm 25 years old and my HUSBAND and I stayed with my mother and we had a curfew of nine oclock. She didn't want us waking her up comming in because she's a light sleeper. When I stay the weekends to sit with my grandmother there are rules and regulations. It is your mothers house. You're lucky she's letting you stay there with a child. Some mother would MAKE you grow up. And hate is a word that you should NEVER use in reference with your mother.

Quoting Stephisabella:“ Ugh my mom is a total bitch.I watch her kids all the time for her and my boyfriend has been spending ... [snip!] ... why i get treated like shit but they are letting her do eveything.Sorry i just had to vent because my parents are so stupid.”

DUDE YEAH I AGREE WITH THE FIRST POST...
MOVE OUT.....I DIDNT LIKE HOW MY MOM TREATED MY SISTER AND I DIF...BUT HELL, THERES NOTHING I COULD SAY, SHES MY MOTHER AND IM CERTAINLY NOT GONNA TELL HER WHAT TO DO...O SHIT SRY caps was on, anyway, just try to have more patience and
MOVE THE HELL OUT. seriously if theyre saying that, o well, u are 18 and have a kid so move out, they'll get over it trust me!

Quoting Stephisabella:“ my parents arent supporting me i pay for everything myself they havent bought me anything i wanna move out but they make me feel so bad about it they i stayed.”

If your not paying rent you're still, being supported by someone...

Quoting Stephisabella:“ well yall arent the one's that have stuff you need to get done but you have to make sure you are home by 9pm.And im trying to move out.Im going to ask my boyfriend's grandma if i can live with her.”

I work, take care of my baby, and am always in bed by 9pm. I run all of my errands, and even get in TV time with hubby.

Quoting Mrs. Bodine:“ Hell it is owed to her!! My husband and i are staying in my parents basement right now and my husband ... [snip!] ... backwards for my parents and does every little thing possible for them because he knows how much of a favor they are doing us!”

i gues you dont know it at all.My mom doesnt watch my son i have done everything by myself since my son was born.I never go anywhere without my son.I didnt ask her once to watch him and she threw a fit about it so i just took him with me.She hasnt done anything for me except put me in dept.And when i say something about moving out she always says well you move out then dont come back and im never talking to you again.So it makes me feel bad and i stayed.I had everything packed about a month again but she basiclly begged me not to go.

besides you have a child, what could you possibly need to do that requires you to be out past 9 o clock?

Quoting okaygoodbye:“ i didnt say that she took care of your son as in watching him. she gives your son a roof over his head, ... [snip!] ... wheter you pay for everything else is besides the point. they are providing you with a place to live for you and your child.”

your ungreatful lil bitch l
ike this okaygoobye said there is a roof over your sons head
you know how meany girls would wish there mom and dad's would love them enough to let me them stay with them after haven a kid
and your bitching bc your watching her kids HER KIDS ARE YOUR BORHTERS AND SISTERS you need to pull your head out of your ass and wake up to real life

Quoting snugglymama:“ You are a motherf? You have a child? Don't you think that means it is time for you to stop behaving like ... [snip!] ... and your child. Until then you have no room to complain. As long as you behave like a child, expect her to treat you like one.”

I was wondering about the mom part too, then I read her profile. She is a mommy, but I guess there is a big difference when you are 18 because, I barely have the energy to be out past 9pm!! LOL I feel really old right now! LOL

Sweetie, it is just getting time for you to be on your own, when you live with ANYONE, parents, relatives, roomates, a husband, wellthere are certain "rules" of the house and there are concessions to be made. Just because you don't like it, doesn't mean it is worth a fight or HATE. You sound frustrated and maybe you have a million other issues with your mom you have not shared, but on the being home by 9pm, well, unless you are working past 9pm, is it really that big of a deal to work at it to keep peace?

Quoting Mommy Mander:“ honey, I'm 25 years old and my HUSBAND and I stayed with my mother and we had a curfew of nine oclock. ... [snip!] ... with a child. Some mother would MAKE you grow up. And hate is a word that you should NEVER use in reference with your mother.”

but see thats the funny thing because my mom doesnt go to sleep until 11pm she just wants to make rules.But with my sister that is 14years old she doesnt care if she gets home late.I was out until 9:20 before and i got yelled at and my parents said my curfew is going to be 8:00 but my sister was late and they didnt care.