re: Share your story...

I posted in another thread about how awesome my In laws are...but I'll share some lovely tidbits about my poor husband who is doomed with the In Laws from hell...LOL

The day after Christmas we all go out to do our bargain shopping, my mother is a smoker and my husband and I both have allergies and asthma, smoke is one of my known triggers yet she thinks nothing of blowing smoke into my face. Well we were in our SUV and she was whining about having to smoke out in the cold and that we were so mean we should let her smoke in the truck. My husband rather calmly but forcefully told her that not only does her smoke bother our asthma, but we both are fighting colds and her smoking caused me to have an attack last time I was visiting and he didn't feel like taking me to the ER the day after Christmas. Well she had a fit! She snapped, "Take me home!" and refused to talk to us the whole way back to her house. Once there she jumps out of the truck and runs to stand on the porch, telling my dad- lord knows what.
-So on the day after Christmas we get thrown out of my parents house and have to drive 3 1/2 hours back home!
She then refuses to speak to me because I didn't stand up for her against the "asshole" that is my husband.
Excuse me, but my husband is the only one that ever stood up for me!
I have tried to talk to her and my father, but I get nothing but screamed at, so I gave up. Screw them! I know my husband is a lot happier now that he doesn't have to deal with them.

Oh and then to add to it, my lovely mother gets mad at my aunt for not inviting my ex finacee to her 4th of July party. My ex was an abusive prick that manipulated, beat and emotionally drained me for 5 years! She wants him to come to her party but can't talk to us?!

Quoting Bec&Nate:“ can we lock your MIL and my SIL in the same room so we dont have to suffer”

Absolutely.  

I'm one of those people blessed with FANTASTIC inlaws. i odnt have a single complaint about them-except that they spoil my son-i go over there and basically allmy rules go out the door-oooh well
BUT my husband on the other hand defiently has a Monster in law!! i feel so bad for him, but Fortunetly for him he never knew how bad it really was.
heres the the worst story i cna think of....
a little background info-my husband is american, i am canadian, but we chose to live in the US because there was more job opportunites for him. anyways, after 5 months of dating we knew we were right for each other and set up an egagement to be married the following august (so a little over ayear)my mother was THRILLED and LOVED my fiance. well turned out i got pregnant RIGHT afterwards (though didnt know for 4 months) and so we got married in november instead. but because he was still living and goingto school down in the states, i couldnt afford to live on my own with a new baby, so i w ent home to live with my parents until immigration papers went through. at this point my mom now hated my husband for getting me pregnant before marriage-even though we had gotten married, she still hated him
SO the weekend I moved home, my parents were away on a cruise, so i invited my husband to come up for the weekend nad we'd have the house to ourselves one last time before baby came. Plus we still needed to get a crib and travel system and other baby things (i was 36 weeks here). WELL, my mom found out he was here alone with me and that we hadd went and bought all this stuff without her advice *rollseyes* and she got sooooo pissed that she claimed that he was no longer allowed to come up and visit me. ESPECIALLY when the baby was born. theres no way shedlet him come up for the birth or even stay with me and the baby afterwards (he had planned to spend the week with me).

THANKGOD i went into early labor and my sister called him and he came up beforemy mom even knew i was in labor. so there was nothing she could do about him being there. but she made mylife HELL that week.
anwyas, sorry it was long

OOOH and when i had moved down (finally after 14 months of waiting for immigration papers and crap), my husband was almost finished school-graduating in 3 months. we tried and tried to find a job for him close to home, in like seattle area (only 6hrs from home), but there was nothing, not for his inexperienceness. so we took a job he was offered here in ridgecrest (25 hrs from home) and my mom triedto kill herself because she thought shed never see me again. that was her way in trying to control us to stay clsoer to home.
so ya, my poor hubby has to deal with her crap all the time :/

We just found out we're pregnant we decided to tell imediate family now, and wait to tell anyone else.. if they find out they find out..

so everyone is very happy his grandma started to cry because she never thought she'd have a great grand baby (shes only like 56 haha) and we called my SIL and told her.. she was sooo happy she lives in ventura county and was talking about moving back up here...
so the next day he goes to tell his dad... BAD IDEA!

All mark got out of his dad was "You're only telling me this so you can have money, we'll im not paying a dime for this baby, i dont want a damn thing to do with it"... and then went on to say "Well she can still missycarry, did her mom ever misscarry that raises her chances... shes still so early in her pregnancy so the chances are high that she will"...

wtf? why would you want that of your grandchild...

and to make it worse.. marks happy sister is so far up thier dads ass that it turned into her siding with her dad and just defended him saying he was joking about me losing our baby??? wtf.. bitch...

stupid them.. oh well everyone else is thrilled  

Quoting CherryGarcia:“ We just found out we're pregnant we decided to tell imediate family now, and wait to tell anyone else.. ... [snip!] ... him saying he was joking about me losing our baby??? wtf.. bitch... stupid them.. oh well everyone else is thrilled  ”

wow that's insane! what a jerk face! my MIL didn't say that she thought I'd loose it but was quick to say that she was disowning my husband because we were having a child.

Quoting CherryGarcia:“ We just found out we're pregnant we decided to tell imediate family now, and wait to tell anyone else.. ... [snip!] ... him saying he was joking about me losing our baby??? wtf.. bitch... stupid them.. oh well everyone else is thrilled  ”

People say the stupidest things and not even think about it twice.

I have the Sister-in-law from HELL! My brother was married July of last year, and in the months of May and June of last year I was fighting myself to be a good sister and not try and break them up. I wish I had broken them about now! There's about a 3 year age difference between her and I, and for some unknown reason (I think it's cause I'm blond...seriously) she thinks I am completely mindless! Honestly, I really don't care if she likes me, but lately it's spread from just a dislike of me to her not liking my mom and my other brother, Matt. About a week before Father's Day my brother called my mom and told her they needed to talk. He continued to say that Shaheda (his wife) has been out of control all day. Telling him that he was a nobody and a fat ass and all sorts of other things. He said he thought that they needed to talk to each other. When he said that she chimed in to say, "I don't want to f*cking talk to her." My mom hears him yell to her in the background, "Do you want me to tell her what you told me?" she replied, "for the love of God, please do!" He gets back on the phone and says, "I'm sorry mom. Shaheda doesn't like you, she doesn't like Matt, she doesn't like Liz, and she doesn't like dad." Shaheda screams, "NO! I love your dad." Pretty much the phone call left my mom completely upset. No one has done anything but be nice to her. I just don't understand.

Quoting Elizabeth *11~08*:“ I have the Sister-in-law from HELL! My brother was married July of last year, and in the months of May ... [snip!] ... Pretty much the phone call left my mom completely upset. No one has done anything but be nice to her. I just don't understand.”

your SIL sounds alot like mine I was always nice to her until she turned bitch on me

I've got a long post from a couple weeks back... they're some great stories on there

totally worth it to read the whole thread i swear.
http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about232554.html