My In-Laws SUCK!!!

So, you know...I can take a whole lot, but sometimes I just want to throw something!!

For several months, my hubby and my family in Ohio were planning a trip to the beach fora week utilizing the beach house my hubby's family owns. With his mother having cancer, his brother being handicapped and his grandmother being bedridden, oh and his sister having SO many damn farm animals to care for...well, we're the only ones using the house. His mother and grandma both said it was fine for us to do this. We did this last year!

Well, last night I found out that my hubby's sister, husband, and annoying child want to come and rain on our parade. THEN, to top it all off...his nasty skank-ass aunt who doesn't bathe (EWWWW) is coming to pick up his grandmother (who most of the time is an evil senile bitch!) and bringing her down to the beach. Well, if some of you remember...I HATE THAT WOMAN! His grandmother said our child was going to be deformed (handicapped) because it's a part of me! I THINK HIS AUNT WANTS TO KILL HIS GRANDMOTHER! Plus, she forgets to give her her meds and she has to be in a hospital bed most of the time.

Now, I don't know what to do. Tell my family not to come or just suck it up...stay at my house (100 miles away from beach) until they leave. I'm just so pissed! My hubby hates that he and I are treated this way, but I swear if I see them I will tell them where to go.

How is everyone else's in-laws?

Quoting Jennie K:“ So, you know...I can take a whole lot, but sometimes I just want to throw something!! For several ... [snip!] ... that he and I are treated this way, but I swear if I see them I will tell them where to go. How is everyone else's in-laws?”

Mine Don't want me and my man together. Sucks.They want him to forget me and move on. I have to be always fighting for him. that sucks. But he's decided to leave his family to be with me. So I am supporting him a lot about it.

Quoting KayDay:“ Mine Don't want me and my man together. Sucks.They want him to forget me and move on. I have to be always ... [snip!] ... always fighting for him. that sucks. But he's decided to leave his family to be with me. So I am supporting him a lot about it.”

Sorry that is happening to you. At least your man is supportive. I get the feeling mine isn't sticking up for me the way he's supposed to. It's aggravating and you're right...it SUCKS!

why is you rhubby so afriad of them? is he easy going?My brother is like that and he only does things if we kick up a massive fuss about it. other than that he lets things run its course as long as he is alive an d well.

Well I don't have it as bad as the two of you do. But my in-laws are still a pain in the butt! My M-I-L is ALWAYS right....at least she thinks she is. She doesn't care about us not wanting anyone to smoke around our kids, and other decisions we have made for our kids. His sister is a royal pain. To her, the world revolves around her and her daughter. NO ONE can correct her child, but don't dare let someone elses child do anything w/o her being right there to correct it! She comes to my house, telling my kids what they can do, and allowing her daughter to treat my kids' stuff like it's hers. (hitting toys with a play bat, throwing them around) My husband corrected her daughter the other day about the toy issue, and his sister didn't like it. He told me that he won't let anyone treat me and the kids poorly, not even his sister, and especially in our house! So it's great I have his support, but they still suck!

my MIL is the WORST mother on the face of the planet. i really do have a strong hate for her. she was in jail. and just got out about 2 or 3 months ago. DIDNT HAVE THE NERVE TO CALL ME till the other day. and i told her that she was gonna be a grandma. (she thought her son/myhubby was lieing about the whole thing) and she turns around and says ohh you need to get an abortion. or give the baby to her. 1st off we argued for a good 2 hours 2nd off im not giving that women my child. and wouldnt abondon my baby. why i wouldnt give my baby to her because she treated my hubby like he was a dog when he was younger. then has the nerve to say that he was a mistake and wished she aborted him.WTF!!!! ahh shes a wak job and i dont like her at all

Quoting Wife & Mommie To Be[1/15]:“ my MIL is the WORST mother on the face of the planet. i really do have a strong hate for her. she was ... [snip!] ... has the nerve to say that he was a mistake and wished she aborted him.WTF!!!! ahh shes a wak job and i dont like her at all”

wow, she does sound like a wack job! I think I'd avoid her at all cost! Good luck with the baby! Babies are awesome! :0)

Quoting Menny:“ wow, she does sound like a wack job! I think I'd avoid her at all cost! Good luck with the baby! Babies are awesome! :0)”

if i told you everything she has done to her own family (why she was in jail.) you'd just stay in shock for a while. its heart breaking. but as soon as my baby gets here. she getting pics and nothing else. and thank you. and babies are miracles especially this one  

Quoting Wife & Mommie To Be[1/15]:“ if i told you everything she has done to her own family (why she was in jail.) you'd just stay in shock ... [snip!] ... as soon as my baby gets here. she getting pics and nothing else. and thank you. and babies are miracles especially this one  ”

I agree with you. Don't subject your child to her and the abuse!

That's what I've been telling my hubby about his family. I said, if they want to see him...they can come to me because I'm NOT going to the farm to see them. I don't care. I am his mother and what I say goes! Plain and simple!

Quoting Jennie K:“ I agree with you. Don't subject your child to her and the abuse! That's what I've been telling my ... [snip!] ... come to me because I'm NOT going to the farm to see them. I don't care. I am his mother and what I say goes! Plain and simple!”

exactly. if she doesnt like it. i told her to commit a crime and go back to jail were she belongs. ugh i hate our jail system. she was supposed to go away for i think5 or 6 years. but she only went for 6months. and they did that TWICE!! shes been in and out of jail its horrible. but im sorry your going through that its hard especially when its there mother.

I hear that. Stand up to them my people! my MIL told me she rather my man had gone with my sister cause she fines she is nicer. I was like WTF! She lives in another country so she is not going to be seeing my child at all.

I'm extremely fortunate, my In Laws are the best!  
my poor husband didn't get so lucky, his in laws (my parents) are distrubed people with various mental and substance problems. Hence why they are not in our lives nor will they ever be in my little girls life.
it was very hard to cut my parents out of my life, but the truth of the matter is simply this : It was harder to have them in my life than it is to not have them.

good luck and hugs!

Ummm well...my in-laws...never met them. Most likely never will. My boyfriend is not treated very well by his lovely mother...never has been. He's the youngest and gets the worst treatment from her. Thats fine though, she's been such a c u next tuesday to him, I don't want her to be able to enjoy her grandchild. I'm sorry you guys have such wonderful in-laws yourselves (can you hear the sarcasm coming from that statement? Lmao) hopefully all will work out eventually.

Now as for my EX mother in law. Sweetheart...really...BUT...she's very into "natural"...everything. Organics, all that stuff. Nothing wrong with that...only when she's shoving organic pills, solutions, foods, teas, etc, etc at me it starts to get annoying. THEN when she tells me whenever my husband at the time and I decide to have kids...I should have a natural birth because, "it's just so much healthier for you and I've heard epidurals are bad for the baby and can paralyz you." Unlikely. You didn't give birth naturally, and if I don't want to I shouldn't be judged by you because of it.

The question is, how are my boyfriends in-laws? Haha. My parents hate him. End of story. They loved (still love) my ex and we all got along great. But poor Cliff. Lol. Looks like I'll be visiting my family ALONE from now on haha.