re: Age to Leave Babies

Quoting Mommy2Bella~&~Isaiah:“ Ok, please don't get mo wrong I am trying to understand this... but are you saying you already know you need a break from a baby that isn't even here yet???”

my thoughts exactly..

Quoting Mommy2Bella~&~Isaiah:“ Ok, please don't get mo wrong I am trying to understand this... but are you saying you already know you need a break from a baby that isn't even here yet???”

no i dont need a break from the baby, i dont even wanna leave my baby. i need a break from..... reality i guess. my family has a lot of problems and everyone always turns to me for advice..... its annoying and its overwhelming... i cant deal with my brother and sister in my face 24 fucking 7. i cant deal with being here at all

Quoting MamaMary:“ i took zoloft without any signs of depression.. its all about prevention. Because once your depressed its really hard to get out.. and you have that baby to be happy for!”

Why take medicine if you don't need it?

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ no i dont need a break from the baby, i dont even wanna leave my baby. i need a break from..... reality ... [snip!] ... and its overwhelming... i cant deal with my brother and sister in my face 24 fucking 7. i cant deal with being here at all”

Oh well then honey leaving your baby won't help at all! You will have a miserable time. Do you have someone else you could go stay with for a few days??? I was living with my Mother In Law when I was pregnant with Bella, because we were waiting to close on our house and things got pushed back. It was me, my husband, his mom and dad and 2 grandmas in one friggin house! We ended up renting a house for a week just so I didn't lose my mind.

Quoting MamaMary:“ hahahah.. my sister is due in october.. and i was searching people for her.. to compare bellies.. ... [snip!] ... know how to search without putting that im prego.. and now im just to lazy to switch it.. lol your the first to notice that!”

Ah i see lol! i was like wtf, he musta been a micro preemie and she got knocked up 1 week pp or something!!!! mine were extreme prem n we had an 'accident' around our due date and i thought jeez im gona be preggo already on our due date lol. Congrats on the new babies in ur family  

sorry had to go out with my family


yeah i want to take him up there with me but my mom is REALLY protective of him and HATES his father....i would probably end up leaving him with his dad sometimes like if i wante to go out. i really just need to get away from this house tho, thats why i took her up on the offer.

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ sorry had to go out with my family yeah i want to take him up there with me but my mom is REALLY ... [snip!] ... sometimes like if i wante to go out. i really just need to get away from this house tho, thats why i took her up on the offer.”

Your mum is protective over your child... NEWSFLASH....its YOUR baby!!! You can take him with you wherever you go, its what all other parents do!! You can still take time out now before you have him, just go for a walk or stay at a friends or whatever. Same as once baby is here, take him out, clear your head and get some space, its what everyone else has to do to get by!!

Around 2 months