re: Age to Leave Babies

mine slept through the night at 4 months and sleeps for 12-13 hrs.

she goes to bed bet 4-6 pm and sleeps al night long..

but when we go somewhere she can't sleep. I think it is the bed.

Quoting MamaMary:“ yep.. your really not going to want to leave your baby... i cant for more than a couple hours, ands thats only once in a blue moon.. id miss him way waaaaay to much.”

i must be really stoopid, but isnt your baby 16 weeks old, but you are 24 weeks pregnant? im confused lol

Quoting Summer to Shine:“ mine slept through the night at 4 months and sleeps for 12-13 hrs. she goes to bed bet 4-6 pm and sleeps al night long.. but when we go somewhere she can't sleep. I think it is the bed.”

Damn..4pm? What time does she wake up? Lorelai goes to bed at 7 and sleeps 12 hrs

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ my mom is basically MAKING me go. i dont wanna go without him but i have been so depressed lately about ... [snip!] ... so she wants to make sure i have a little fun b4 i get REALLY depressed......cause im liable to get depressed very easily lol”

you should immediatly take something for that after birth.. it really helps.. and i pretty much think that i would be more sad if i didnt ahve my flesh and blood. Screw friends.. your going to have the most precious little thing that was ever made.. ever.. EVER> lol..

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ it seems everyones baby is different lol...i thought that sleeping thru the night was milestone that every kid went thru but it had a ballpark age”

Yes, every baby is different. My best friends daughter is 22mo old and still doesn't sleep through the night!  

Quoting twinmami:“ i must be really stoopid, but isnt your baby 16 weeks old, but you are 24 weeks pregnant? im confused lol”

hahahah.. my sister is due in october.. and i was searching people for her.. to compare bellies.. and i didnt know how to search without putting that im prego.. and now im just to lazy to switch it.. lol your the first to notice that!

Quoting MamaMary:“ you should immediatly take something for that after birth.. it really helps.. and i pretty much think ... [snip!] ... flesh and blood. Screw friends.. your going to have the most precious little thing that was ever made.. ever.. EVER> lol..”

i will if i need to,

its not that i dont love my son. i really do. but she thinks i might need a break. im only going for 3 to 5 days.....

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ i will if i need to, its not that i dont love my son. i really do. but she thinks i might need a break. im only going for 3 to 5 days.....”

i took zoloft without any signs of depression.. its all about prevention.
Because once your depressed its really hard to get out.. and you have that baby to be happy for!

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ my mom is basically MAKING me go. i dont wanna go without him but i have been so depressed lately about ... [snip!] ... so she wants to make sure i have a little fun b4 i get REALLY depressed......cause im liable to get depressed very easily lol”

Promise you.... everyone loses their friends when they get pregnant. You make new ones..... ones with friends who can relate to you and your situation, because life can no longer be about fun and coach bags and all when you have a child. You will find that some of your old friends become pretty lame when you have a child and all they can talk about is "Omg tommy looked at me blah blah blah" and you are thinking how excited you are that your son smiled or rolled over for the first time..... it kinda puts you on different levels..... but its worth it!

Quoting MamaMary:“ hahahah.. my sister is due in october.. and i was searching people for her.. to compare bellies.. ... [snip!] ... know how to search without putting that im prego.. and now im just to lazy to switch it.. lol your the first to notice that!”

I saw that too... but was like whatever lol

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ i will if i need to, its not that i dont love my son. i really do. but she thinks i might need a break. im only going for 3 to 5 days.....”

Take the break when you really need it, not because someone thinks you do.

Quoting Mommy2Bella~&~Isaiah:“ Promise you.... everyone loses their friends when they get pregnant. You make new ones..... ones with ... [snip!] ... are that your son smiled or rolled over for the first time..... it kinda puts you on different levels..... but its worth it!”

i know. i have realized that some of my friends just arent worth it...i do have friends with kids tho. i just wanna take some time to myself since i know im gunna be home 24/7 with him. i dont mind being with my son, after all he is my heart...i couldnt live without him. but im sure u can understand just wanting a few days to yourself. mind you im still pregnant so im not sure how it will be....



i dont know how to explain it or why we came to this decision (both my mother and myself.) but we did....... and if i REALLY dont wanna leave him i will just make his father change his schedule so his nights are free to take the baby.

Quoting Mommy2Bella~&~Isaiah:“ Take the break when you really need it, not because someone thinks you do.”

i think i do already.

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ i know. i have realized that some of my friends just arent worth it...i do have friends with kids ... [snip!] ... and if i REALLY dont wanna leave him i will just make his father change his schedule so his nights are free to take the baby.”

I have a daughter that will be 18 mos old on the 10th and I have not had one day to myself since she came into this world. I am 8 and a half mos pregnant, so my first night away from her will be when I go to the hospital to deliever her brother. I chose to have it that way, I don't want to leave her for anything!

Quoting Meow Meow©:“ i think i do already.”

Ok, please don't get mo wrong I am trying to understand this... but are you saying you already know you need a break from a baby that isn't even here yet???