i seriously cant take it anymore!

okay so lately ive been like having problems with the boyfriends side of the family ever since the baby and i slept over the weekend after fathers day and i couldnt fall asleep until 7am i dont know why so then his 2 aunts call like at 8:00am telling him that they want to go see the baby and my boyfriend was like no brenda just fell asleep and the baby's sleeping okay so then their there arguing for awhile and i kinda heard him and i woke up and i said whats wrong and he said just go back to sleep so then he tells me this later on. so then his mom said that she was going to talk to my mom and they talked and she told my mom that soposeably i tell my bf to tell them not to come cuz i dont want to see them or whatever. i got pissed off because i cant believe they would say that. a few days before this happended his two aunts came over and they were trying to wake him up and stuff but he wouldnt so then they were there giving me dirty looks and not talking to me so then one of his aunts says are you still going to go to school because no one will take care of anthony so im like ill find someone because im finishing school. okay then when they were leaving i heard them say omg brenda looks really ugly and i dont think shes taken a shower and her room is a mess. so i got superr! pissed no one in his family really talk to me ever since anthony was born. the only ones that talk to me and his younger bro and sis.so in the past few days my bf has been an asshole too because his mom wanted the 3of us to take pics ofsunday but she wanted me to be ready by 8am and i didnt want towake up early so then she saidlets go on monday morning since i had my WIC appt they siad lets go after but ihad to be home because no one could take care of my lil brother then they were both somad at me because i couldnt go. and i said the only time i could go is after 4 and shes like well im not picking her up at that time blah blah blah.so he only took the baby to take pictures which was kinda stupid because his mom was first yelling at me and stuff that im the mom and i should be able to go take pics. i told him im notpictures if you ever want the 3 of us because you already took pics so theres no point of taking anymore. then my parents were furious mostly my dad because hes like what kinda ofbull**** is that why didnt they wait until you were free and i told him its because he said that his family NEEDS pictures of him because they've been waiting a long time forthem.i dont think they ever really cared because when i was pregnant they only cared about me because i had him inside and i know that because i had this rash that some women get during pregnancy and i told them and their like oh hows the baby?

ughh! this is long but i just had this out
i cant take them ignoring me and pretend that
im not even there!

i dont know what to do..
 

Honestly I would say well since you cant respect me and I am his mom then you dont need to see him until you can

Thats fucked up, you need to stand your ground with them. He is your child and therefor onyour timing schedual if they dont like it tell them they dont have to come around.

im sorry honey. i reallly don't know what i would do in your situation. i would maybe try talking to your bf/bd and let him know how you feel and either ya'll talk to them together or him talk to him and let them know that if they can't treat you right then they shouldn't shouldn't be a part of you or your babies life because when your child gets bigger and they still act like that he will pick up on that kind of stuff and with your bf/bd not doing anything about he will think it is ok to treat you that way. ive seen this happen before but not with the family it was the childs father treating the mom like shit and her son grew to be a total dick to her and not respect her at all

you have a beautiful little boy by the way and i love the name anthony

I'm sorry you have to put up with this! I know how you feel my mother in law hates me. or well she did hate me then we saw each other and she didn't hate me anymore then when we got back home from the visit she started up with everything again. So I definitly know how much it sucks. my MIL hates me because I married her son a year and a half ago and we're both 22 and I'm almost 8 months prego and his sister kinda hates me as well cause I stole her brother in a way... ugh I hate family issues.

Dont let them push you around. You are the mom and you do whats best for you guys...not whats best for them! They can wait a few more hours to take pictures! Gosh. They are ridiculous.

They sound like messy messy people if you know what i mean. They seem like they are gonna make it hard for you . Who can say what time you are gonna do anything, Girl don't let his family get you down. Misery likes company so blow their mind and so some reverse psycology on their ass. Be as nice as you can. But maybe you need a break from them. You need to be around people who want you to be okay and give you a hand when you need it and not put demands on you. Don't do nothing crazy and snap. When you just had a baby you are so snappable. If you don't go postal you may say some ill shit. Just be easy and try to relax.

Quoting KrissyD:“ I'm sorry you have to put up with this! I know how you feel my mother in law hates me. or well she did ... [snip!] ... I'm almost 8 months prego and his sister kinda hates me as well cause I stole her brother in a way... ugh I hate family issues.”

i hate that when mothers and sisters get pissed at you cause your "stealing" their baby or brother. thats so stupid its like hello did you not want him to grow up and have a life of his own?

Quoting Brittany & Brandon:“ im sorry honey. i reallly don't know what i would do in your situation. i would maybe try talking to ... [snip!] ... it was the childs father treating the mom like shit and her son grew to be a total dick to her and not respect her at all”

i tried talking to him but all he says is that i have something against his family 

Quoting KrissyD:“ I'm sorry you have to put up with this! I know how you feel my mother in law hates me. or well she did ... [snip!] ... I'm almost 8 months prego and his sister kinda hates me as well cause I stole her brother in a way... ugh I hate family issues.”

really? MIL suck! well some of them! lol i hate family issues too.:/

Quoting ANTHONY'S ♥ MOMMY:“ i tried talking to him but all he says is that i have something against his family ”

weell that just sucks. like he can't see how they are treating you and making you feel. sounds like you are gonna have to go into bitch mode and straighten them out

Quoting Brandan'sWife:“ Dont let them push you around. You are the mom and you do whats best for you guys...not whats best for them! They can wait a few more hours to take pictures! Gosh. They are ridiculous.”

ohh yeah thhey are veryy ridiculous its only because his family is impacient and couldnt wait a few hours!

Quoting Brittany & Brandon:“ weell that just sucks. like he can't see how they are treating you and making you feel. sounds like you are gonna have to go into bitch mode and straighten them out”

yeah i know! my parents keep saying that im too young to get this kinda stuff. they just piss me off even more because they ruined my bb showr! :/

yeah alot of them do... I hear some woman that say that they get along with their MILs so well and I look at them and say well, take it in and be thankful that you got that because I sure as hell didn't! but one thing I know I wont do is take her Grandmother's rights away. she has a right to see her granddaughter but not alone! I laughed cause she was telling my DH that she wants to be here when the baby is born. the only thing I could think was well you'd better hope she's not as stubborn as my DH and I are! cause I doubt she'll come when you want her to haha. I just hope she finally comes around on the whole thing... maybe maybe not we can all just pray right??