Rude a*s N*gg*......Am I wronge?
126 postsposted 2nd Jul
Please excuse my french with the N word but my babydaddy means no more to me than that..... Me and my son haven't seen or spoken to him in about 5 weeks...... that is until today! This morning I decided to stop and treat my son to donuts before dropping him off at daycare and we seen his father. He didn't have the kindness to speak( TO MY SON!) hE DOESN'T HAVE TO SPEAK TO ME BECAUSE TO ME HE IS DEAD..... but why would you do your on flesh and blood like that? He is lower than low and the scum of the damn earth! So am I wrong for not letting him see my son after this? I am also pregnant again by him and i don't inform him of anything no updates or shit! I just really feel a lot of hatred that i'm praying about..... I don't want him corrupting my sons mind or my unborn child! SO I AM REVOKING ANY VISITATION AND GOING TO CONTINUE RAISING MY KIDS NOT TELLING THEM ABOUT THEIR SPERM DONOR... oR HOW SHOULDI HANDLE THISDIFFERENTLY...I'M OPEN FOR SUGESTIONS TO END MY CONFUSION! If you on some otha stuff and think you might come at me sideways then keep it 2 ya self(PLEASE)
quoteI'm due January 31st, have 1 child & live in Texas
6128 postsposted 2nd Jul
wow. What kind of man doesn't say hi to his own kid?!?!
quoteI'm due August 24th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Salem, Oregon
9330 postsposted 2nd Jul
If he doesn't want to be apart of your life you can't force him to be. If you want child support would be in your child's life no matter what so think about that if you plan on filing.
I didn't realize the "n" word was french.
quoteI didn't realize the "n" word was french.
I have 1 child & live in Dallas, Texas
5201 postsposted 2nd Jul
Fuck em girl...
Do what you gotta do for yours, but forget his ass...
Someday when your kids ask about him just tell them he chose not to be in their lives, and it has nothing to do with them...
quoteDo what you gotta do for yours, but forget his ass...
Someday when your kids ask about him just tell them he chose not to be in their lives, and it has nothing to do with them...
I'm due January 9th, have 2 kids & live in Davenport, Iowa
6206 postsposted 2nd Jul
Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ If he doesn't want to be apart of your life you can't force him to be. If you want child support would ... [snip!] ... be in your child's life no matter what so think about that if you plan on filing. I didn't realize the "n" word was french.”LMFAO!
I have 3 kids & live in Kuwait
925 postsposted 2nd Jul
Wow ... I cant believe he didnt even say hi to his child .... Did your son see him ? I mean how did he feel about it ?
quoteI'm due September 18th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Kentucky
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting *Mrs.Hamman*:“ wow. What kind of man doesn't say hi to his own kid?!?!
He is a dead beat! He wants me 2 kiss his butt 4 him 2 take care of his kids and i'm not!
I'm due January 31st, have 1 child & live in Texas
494 postsposted 2nd Jul
My daughters dad is a lowlife as well. His mom used to watch my daughter when she was a baby and he'd walk in the house and walk right past her and then walk out. Ive never to this day received any time of help from him. Hes on childsupport but ive pretty much accepted the fact that hes never going to man up and pay what he owes at least. Good luck and just remember you are better off by yourself!
quoteI'm due January 20th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Texas
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ If he doesn't want to be apart of your life you can't force him to be. If you want child support would ... [snip!] ... be in your child's life no matter what so think about that if you plan on filing. I didn't realize the "n" word was french.”
"french" was an expression but I guess u just being funny... wateva miss me wit the b.s.! I filed long before this happened!
I'm due January 31st, have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo:“ Fuck em girl... Do what you gotta do for yours, but forget his ass... Someday when your kids ask about him just tell them he chose not to be in their lives, and it has nothing to do with them...”Thanks for the positive response~
I'm due January 31st, have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting Mz~L33m3ko~STAY ON!:“ "french" was an expression but I guess u just being funny... wateva miss me wit the b.s.! I filed long before this happened!”
Well if you filed for child support he is going to be involved in the kids lives no matter what. Even if he doesn't pay child support on time they will not cut out his rights to visit with his children.
I have 1 child & live in Dallas, Texas
9 postsposted 2nd Jul
Girl I completely know how you feel. My oldest child is five and her father doesn't call her, doesn't speak to her..he saw her when I dragged him back to Texas for Child Support Court..lol..then all of a sudden he wanted to see his daughter after our hearing..I made the mistake of letting him see her...he hadn't seen her since she was nine months old and she was four at the time...NEVER AGAIN! I've spent every waking moment since January 10th 2008 trying to explain to my daughter why her father doesn't call/write/visit. She thinks it is something she did. NEVER NEVER NEVER again will I put my baby through that..EVER. It's taken us awhile but I think she finally understands that its not her, its him..he's a loser.
As for the baby I'm carrying...haven't heard from MR. Stand Up Guy himself since March. Not a hi, hello, go to hell, nothing..and the more time passes the more I hope he doesn't come back, because I don't want this child to suffer at all..men like that..aren't really men..they just have some weird idea that because they gave you half a dna strand they are all grown up..stay strong girl..it WILL get better. God and time heal all wounds. Much love, be safe and be blessed.
quoteAs for the baby I'm carrying...haven't heard from MR. Stand Up Guy himself since March. Not a hi, hello, go to hell, nothing..and the more time passes the more I hope he doesn't come back, because I don't want this child to suffer at all..men like that..aren't really men..they just have some weird idea that because they gave you half a dna strand they are all grown up..stay strong girl..it WILL get better. God and time heal all wounds. Much love, be safe and be blessed.
I'm due September 8th, have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting mommie2ndxaround:“ Wow ... I cant believe he didnt even say hi to his child .... Did your son see him ? I mean how did he feel about it ?”
My son seen him and he looked confused like dang I know that guy..... But I used the donuts to get him in the car so he wouldn't get to confused with him not speaking and all......
I'm due January 31st, have 1 child & live in Texas
7037 postsposted 2nd Jul
i mean was that the first time he did that? if it only happened one time then don't jump the gun to fast. if he does it a second time then you know it no mistake. then after that say fuck em. and take his for that support. lames now and days.lol
quoteI have 1 child & live in New York
posted 2nd Jul
Quoting 2nd baby on the way!!:“ My daughters dad is a lowlife as well. His mom used to watch my daughter when she was a baby and he'd ... [snip!] ... fact that hes never going to man up and pay what he owes at least. Good luck and just remember you are better off by yourself!”
Thanks! and yep I have figures out the last part..... since i'm on #2 I'd better quit now!
I'm due January 31st, have 1 child & live in Texas
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