re: Rude a*s N*gg*......Am I wronge?
13 postsposted 4th Jul
Quoting Nichole*:“ Exactly. Nothing against single moms, but for those continuing even sleeping with dead beats are dumb, too. I really don't feel for those women.”no disrespect because i dont know you but it sounds like you live in a cookie cuter world a man could be the greatest person at first and then just switch once you have a baby or if things dont go his way. you should never judge a person because of what thier man does because that doesnt reflect them it reflects the man.i understand where she is coming from because my father wasnt there for me & now my child father isnt there either.the moral of the story is it's the mans falt for being a dead beat dad not the womans!
I'm due January 1st & live in Tacoma, Washington
15263 postsposted 4th Jul
Quoting Baby#one4Me:“ no disrespect because i dont know you but it sounds like you live in a cookie cuter world a man could ... [snip!] ... now my child father isnt there either.the moral of the story is it's the mans falt for being a dead beat dad not the womans!”
I don't think you understood.
I know things happen. I know a guy can be great one day and then up and leave the next.
What I DON'T get is why someone would sleep with that guy after he left you and the baby and then get pregnant again.
I have 1 child & live in California
6212 postsposted 4th Jul
Quoting Nichole*:“ I don't think you understood. I know things happen. I know a guy can be great one day and then up and ... [snip!] ... next. What I DON'T get is why someone would sleep with that guy after he left you and the baby and then get pregnant again.”
Ahh! It's the Common-Sense Monster!! lolol
I have 3 kids & live in Kuwait
posted 4th Jul
Quoting ~*~HautéMama~*~ BISH!!:“ Ahh! It's the Common-Sense Monster!! lolol”
I have 1 child & live in California
147 postsposted 4th Jul
Quoting Baby#one4Me:“ no disrespect because i dont know you but it sounds like you live in a cookie cuter world a man could ... [snip!] ... now my child father isnt there either.the moral of the story is it's the mans falt for being a dead beat dad not the womans!”it DOES reflect her when she decided to go back to a man and have sex with him when he clearly wants nothing to do with their first born child and can't even acknowledge him! how's that for good parenting? "i understand you don't want to be part of my child's life and deny a life which you helped create, but let's continue to have sex" REALLY?!
I'm TTC since February '08 & live in Michigan
71 postsposted 4th Jul
That's like real fucked up.
I know females who are in your situation. One of the females i know is a real close friend. She's 17. Had her baby when she was 16 & her child is now one. The other well her babys daddy doesn't give a damn at all about the child.
My advice for u would to be to say fuck him. You don't need him. Mothers are both the mother & father to their kids these days. Like you said he was only a sperm donor. Have u seen Tyler Perry's "What's done in the dark"? If so you never know what your child might become in life. Your baby's father will then be trying to run back to you.
But just keep your head up & do what you gotta do for you & yours.
quoteI know females who are in your situation. One of the females i know is a real close friend. She's 17. Had her baby when she was 16 & her child is now one. The other well her babys daddy doesn't give a damn at all about the child.
My advice for u would to be to say fuck him. You don't need him. Mothers are both the mother & father to their kids these days. Like you said he was only a sperm donor. Have u seen Tyler Perry's "What's done in the dark"? If so you never know what your child might become in life. Your baby's father will then be trying to run back to you.
But just keep your head up & do what you gotta do for you & yours.
I'm due February 20th & live in North Carolina
9330 postsposted 4th Jul
I think it sucks for the poor baby involved. Not only is there going to be one baby ignored by their father there is another one on the way. Shame on you if you fool me once. Shame on me if you fool me twice. Applies here!
quoteI have 1 child & live in Dallas, Texas
posted 6th Jul
no one can really jugde her for sleeping with her baby daddy again you don't know what happened they could have be trying to work things out or anything men have their ways of getting back in our lives as we all know for self she's doing her part as the mother and I for one ,know becauseing I'm not with my first child's father but lately we've been cool with each other when you've known a person and been through thing and you back around each other with out fighting shit sometimes seems to happen now you how emotion s are. I sometimes think about the good times we had but we also had bad times he acted an ass when my son was born he put me through hell dna test and everything else he didn't buy anything for him until he was a year old almost now he's still not paying childsupport like he should but he's spends some time with him.
quoteI'm due October 1st (a boy), have 1 child & live in Texas
5 postsposted 6th Jul
i wish that there were more men oout there instead of pussies[excuse my term] and the sad thing about it is baby boys need fathers....i dont think you are wrong for keeping him away because this way your son has a better chance of growing up to be a better man then his biological sperm doner.
quoteI'm due November 9th (a girl) & live in North Carolina
posted 6th Jul
i definately would like to comment on her sleeping with him again....umfortunately even though dudes can be bastards in the heat of the moment...Sh** happens.. Its a problem i had when i first left my baby father...hes not as extreme as the guy she talks about because when it comes to my baby he calls for information 24-7....but as far as sex....its just that sex. Sometimes you think you can do it with no emotions tied even though that is a LIE!!! Boo once you have one you are fertile so next time get on a major birth control plan but i think what happened to you happened to alot of females
quoteI'm due November 9th (a girl) & live in North Carolina
posted 6th Jul
no u aint wrong girl im pregnant and my baby daddy dont give a shit about me or the baby so dont feel bad and after he got me pregnant he ran off and got married
I'm due October 10th (a boy) & live in Georgia
posted 7th Jul
For the girls who don't have a problem sleeping with those guys again...
Have you heard of the quote "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me"?
It's like.. what would you expect?
quoteHave you heard of the quote "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me"?
It's like.. what would you expect?
I have 1 child & live in California
posted 7th Jul
Quoting 2nd baby on the way!!:“ My daughters dad is a lowlife as well. His mom used to watch my daughter when she was a baby and he'd ... [snip!] ... fact that hes never going to man up and pay what he owes at least. Good luck and just remember you are better off by yourself!”I'm in the same situation wih my daughter's father. He won't call, write, or anything unless he gets to talk to me. He has my mother's house number (won't give him my cell number), but he won't call my daughter b/c he says he can't stand my parents. What a lame excuse. We did the whole custody thing and child support thing. He hasn't paid child support any at all. Our custody case was dropped b/c he keeps lying about his whereabouts. So I have full custody now and he gets no visitation or whatever unless I choose to let him see her. Why would I, though? The last time he saw her was Easter 2006. He talked to her back in January I think of this year. Other than that, nothing. Until a few days ago, he contacted me on Myspace asking for my cell number. I told him how she is doing and that she starts school in August, but I never gave him my cell number. He can call her at my parent's house. He's a drug addicted alcoholic abusive little boy. I can't trust him around his own daughter.
posted 8th Jul
Quoting Nichole*:“ For the girls who don't have a problem sleeping with those guys again... Have you heard of the quote "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me"? It's like.. what would you expect?”
I'm sayin' yo! lols.. Bur for serious - If I had a baby with a man and if he was anything less than fully supportive and loving during the pregnancy, labor, and aftermath then his ass gets bounced to the curb.. I definitely definitely wouldn't deign to get pregnant by him a second time! It's called "judgement of character" - look into getting some ..
And I will say, I giggle internally everytime this thread gets bumped.. The "e" on the end of the "wrong" makes me pronounce it "wron-j" in my head.. lol
I have 3 kids & live in Kuwait
posted 8th Jul
Quoting ~*~HautéMama~*~ BISH!!:“ I'm sayin' yo! lols.. Bur for serious - If I had a baby with a man and if he was anything less than ... [snip!] ... everytime this thread gets bumped.. The "e" on the end of the "wrong" makes me pronounce it "wron-j" in my head.. lol”
lol at the last part!
Well, my fiance wasn't really supportive when I was pregnant. After I had our son, though, he did a complete 180 and is an awesome father. He never cheated on me, though, just acted like an asshole.
I have 1 child & live in California
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