He Lost A Baby Too

I saw this today and loved it and thought I'd share.








"~ He Lost A Baby Too ~

It must be very difficult
To be a man in grief,
Since "men don't cry" and "men are strong"
No tears can bring relief.

It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test
And field the calls and visitors
So she can get some rest.

They always ask if she's alright
And what she's going through.

But seldom take his hand and ask,
"My friend, but how are you?"

He hears her crying in the night
And thinks his heart will break.

He dries her tears and comforts her,
But "stays strong" for her sake.

It must be very difficult
To start each day anew
And try to be so very brave –
He lost his baby too."

Aww that is precious! sad, but precious  

My bdwent through it. He was VERY young. His baby was stillborn because of a cord accident. The mom was a total bitch. She wouldnt let him see the baby at all. He doesnt even know if it was a boy or girl. He rarely talks about it, and very few people know about it...

That was beautiful. It made me cry a little.

THAT WAS SO CUTE .. I LOVE IT! WHERE DID YOU GET IT?

yeah luckily my DH has never had to go through all of that and I fear that I will MC again. I don't ever want him to have to go through this pain cause he's very sensitive but always feels like he has to hold it in. I know my infertility hurts him but he won't talk about it.

That was beautiful.

Quoting dec_mommy_jen:“ THAT WAS SO CUTE .. I LOVE IT! WHERE DID YOU GET IT?”

the author is unknown, I saw it in a friend's blog on her myspace.

That made me almost cry. I like it.

oh crap, im crying!

that made me cry.... it was so sad and so sweet

Quoting Mrs.Rachael-Avi Pimp:“ I saw this today and loved it and thought I'd share. "~ He Lost A Baby Too ~ It must be very ... [snip!] ... strong" for her sake. It must be very difficult To start each day anew And try to be so very brave – He lost his baby too."”

Aaaww, Thats so sad. I'm going to send that to my brother. Thanks for sharing.

very very sweet. My brother and his ex lost a baby. She didn't know how to handle it and so she just left him. He had to go through the loss alone. I probably won't send it to him because it's been a year and a half now and he has moved on. I wouldn't want to bring back any painful memories. But it so true.

Wow! Im in tears now. I never seen it like that. Everyone always asked me if I was ok and never asked him. That just brought back all the emotions and feelings I had.

Wow...I really never thought about it, but it's sooo true, everyone is always so concerned with the mother, but rarely asks how the father is doing and handling it all. So sad! :-(

My brother and his wife lost a little girl at around 20 weeks about 3 years ago...and at the funeral service for her my brother was a complete wreck, I've NEVER seen him cry before. It tore me up and I NEVER EVER want to see him cry again, for any reason. When the family all went through and we gave them all hugs and stuff after the service was over, I bent down and hugged my brother and he held on so tight, and then when I went to let go and give my sister in law a hug and so someone else could hug my brother, he just squeezed even tighter and started to cry even harder. It was sooo emotional :-(