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WOW, I'm so exhausted its ridiculous.. OH well.. I just can't sleep.. Yeah, this is me and my fiances first pregnancy. ANd the other night we were having sex. and then all of a sudden it just stopped. Since we found out the other day that i was one cenimeter dialated. He says that he feels awkward having sex. IN fear that he is hurting the baby and me. And i told him. your not hurting anything. i was like we can have sex up until the waterbreaks. Because i made sure and asked my doctor....And now i just feel like poo. I like my sex.haha. Well obviously. i'm pregnant. but now it just makes me feel unattractive and what not. like i know the reason why he doesnt want to have sex anymore .but it just makes me feel so disgusting and unattractive... Does anyone Know whati mean? ANd has anyone ever gone throug hthis.............

hehe.. yeah.. I joked around with my bd and said lets have some funto get things movin and he, uh, had a hard time gettin into it bc it kinda ffreaked him out. We had to get creative to get him past it. Good luck hun, dun feel bad, it's not just you!!

Quoting *Britney_SOON to be mom*:“ WOW, I'm so exhausted its ridiculous.. OH well.. I just can't sleep.. Yeah, this is me and my fiances ... [snip!] ... makes me feel so disgusting and unattractive... Does anyone Know whati mean? ANd has anyone ever gone throug hthis.............”

Nope. My husband has a thing for pregnant women lol And has no problem having sex up to labor.

However, I was on strict bedrest through my last pregnancy from 20 weeks on...I thought I was going to die. So, I understand how miserable you are :-)

i went through that... scott and i sort of felt awkward while i was pregnant lol. if you have ever watched knocked up and her bf was saying "all i can picture is my penis hitting the baby in the head..."... well yea that was scott lol

I wonder how much longer its going to be until i have the baby. LIke if i have already dialated one cenimeter. does that mean he is going to be coming soon OH.. and like right now i'm having some horrible pain going on. like its hard for meto lean over. and to like sit. LIke. oww. does anyone know what that is...

Quoting AmandaLaura:“ i went through that... scott and i sort of felt awkward while i was pregnant lol. if you have ever watched ... [snip!] ... knocked up and her bf was saying "all i can picture is my penis hitting the baby in the head..."... well yea that was scott lol”

haha. yeah. that part of the movie was pretty hillarious1

I know what you mean....and I'm almost 5w pp! My SO wants to have sex, but I feel so totally unattractive that it makes me wanna throw up  

thats just the pleasure of being prego.. and dialation really doesnt gaurentee anything.. I would tell your man to get in the kicks while he can cause after baby it will be awhile.

Quoting AmandaLaura:“ i went through that... scott and i sort of felt awkward while i was pregnant lol. if you have ever watched ... [snip!] ... knocked up and her bf was saying "all i can picture is my penis hitting the baby in the head..."... well yea that was scott lol”

LOL that was my bf too especially since I made him go see it with me while I was pregnant, but as much as he likes sex he just complained about hurting the baby never actually stopped him from having sex.

To the OP my friends bf was like that as well so the next dr visit she had her doc write a note saying sex is just fine while pregnant.

Quoting *Britney_SOON to be mom*:“ I wonder how much longer its going to be until i have the baby. LIke if i have already dialated one cenimeter. ... [snip!] ... some horrible pain going on. like its hard for meto lean over. and to like sit. LIke. oww. does anyone know what that is...”

That's just ligament pain. Contractions don't work like that at all. It's just the discomfort of pregnancy.

And I hate to burst your bubble, but I walked around dilated with all of my kids quite a ways without going into labor....a 2 with my oldest, 4 with my second, and 1 and a half with my youngest.

Good luck! No matter what, labor is imminent. Just remember that :-) Baby has to come out eventually lol

yeah, ididnt know if me being dialted meant anything. Thats why i had no problem having sex lol. It s not like im expecting him to pop out . anytime soon. since i'm dialated.. But i just assumed that it meant that not to much longer to go.. youknow

Quoting *Britney_SOON to be mom*:“ yeah, ididnt know if me being dialted meant anything. Thats why i had no problem having sex lol. It s ... [snip!] ... him to pop out . anytime soon. since i'm dialated.. But i just assumed that it meant that not to much longer to go.. youknow”

My cousin is due a week before you almost to the day...I'm sure she's feeling the same way lol

oh there isthe pain again. in my lower back........oww. wtf.? i want it to go awayforthe night..

Quoting *Britney_SOON to be mom*:“ oh there isthe pain again. in my lower back........oww. wtf.? i want it to go awayforthe night..”

and their is pain below my bely button. is this braxton hicks.

Ive felt like this. ALOT.
He always stops and asks if hes hurting me or the baby and im liek no we're fine
My stomach is getting hard now ya kno, and it makes him feel like hes hurting her lol
But Yeah sometimes i just feel like BLAH and sex is the last thing on my mind, but his HORN DOG ASS is alwaysin the mood so im just like Yeah whatever we can fuck lol
I can make him nut real fast so thats what i do. Hes truely a minute man when i want him to be, so it aint so bad! sorry if it TMI