just my imagination??

Has anyone ever been cheated on?? If you have, what are signs?? I never have, but i really feel like my boyfried is cheating on me.. or talking to someone else. Lately he hasnt been really wanting to do stuff with me. Like if i ask him if he wants to do something hell say "maybe later." or "i dont feel good" and whenever we are together.. he has his phone on silent.. and he never use to put it on silent. He tells me hell call me and he never does.. i just feel like he doesnt wanna be with me anymore. It might be cause we have been fighting a lot and i have mood swings really bad.. but idk..ive asked him about it and he says hed never cheat on me and he doesnt feel any differently.. i dont knooooow what to think =[

those are definently things to be looking out for, the whole phone on silent thing would bother me and then not calling when he says hes going to. If he starts lyingthen I'd draw the line. Dont get too obsessive because that'll only make things for you guys worse. Have you asked him or talked to him about how you feel?

i've never been cheated on but i've cheated and in my case...i lacked on communication. i talked as little as possible

Some of the signs I had that my ex was cheating on me
#1 He never wanted to have sex with me
#2 I would call his work and surprise! was told it was his day off
#3 I found long blond hairs on his clothing....I'm anything but a blond!!!!
#4 He would buy me gifts for no apparent reason
#5 Some dumb bitch kept calling the house despite MY VOICE being on the answering machine  
#6 We started fighting less, He would be much more agreeable to my suggestions for things where before he would be more opinionated and we would disagree over silly little things

My ex would never admit to actually cheating on me, but after awhile it all became crystal clear to me. AND only years later did I also find out that he had hit on two of my OWN FRIENDS!!!!!! asshole!

Quoting BabyDance:“ those are definently things to be looking out for, the whole phone on silent thing would bother me and ... [snip!] ... get too obsessive because that'll only make things for you guys worse. Have you asked him or talked to him about how you feel?”

yeah i have and he says he really doesnt feel good when he tells me that and he doesnt know why he puts his phone on silent.. he just does. I mean i dont have any proof.. like there are no calls from girls or texts or anything.. but he could be deleting them. It might just be cause he's tired of my mood swings.. idk.. it suucks!!

Hmm... maybe your guy keeps the phone on silent because he doesn't want any interruptions while he's spending time with you. Alot of guys act weird at different points in a relationship, but just because they're acting that way doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating. Mine was the same way for awhile and I had my suspicions only to find out he was just tired of all the arguing and he just wanted some space so he doesn't have to deal with it as often. If I were you I would sit down and have a serious discussion about what you both would like to see happen with this relationship and see where it goes. (Sorry, I'm just trying to give you a little hope that maybe your suspicions aren't true, even though I'd probably feel the same way if I were you.)

Well,I just had a feeling, because I was hearing from people, and he was constantly over at girls houses, and had girls over, without me knowing,...even though I always knew, cuz they weren't smart enough to shut up when i'd call, or anything, so I made a fake myspace, with a fake picture, and started talking to him, and asked him when was the last time you had sex? he said...yesterday... hmm..then I said well do you wanna hook up, I'll meet you at the mall in Madison (or something like that) and he was like hell yeah..blah blah, what do you wanna do...and he starting naming all this digusting perverted stuff he wanted to do to..."Jessica". SOOO if he has a myspace, or anything like that...i'd say get him like that, maybe...it worked, and he never even suspected it was me...really sad I had to go that far, but I didn't know what else to do!!

Quoting courtann10:“ yeah i have and he says he really doesnt feel good when he tells me that and he doesnt know why he puts ... [snip!] ... or texts or anything.. but he could be deleting them. It might just be cause he's tired of my mood swings.. idk.. it suucks!!”

the phone being on silent can be an indication, but it might not. When my husband comes home from work i always put my phone on silent...not becasue i have something to hide...just because

I was cheated on once...the only sign was that I walked in and found some other girl in my bed.
Sorry... I'm not much of a help  

it could just be because of you being pregnant...maybe he is having emotions or worried or stressed about things....it may have nothing to do with cheating....and he may not feel any different about you....it could just be he has a lot on his mind and is taking the whole thing differently than you....

Quoting USMCBabyOnTheWay:“ i've never been cheated on but i've cheated and in my case...i lacked on communication. i talked as little as possible”

I have to agree with you here. I've been on both ends and I talked as little as possible because when I lie, it's obvious that I'm lying and when you're doing something like that, you're bound to tell a lie...it's unavoidable.

I was cheated on once too, with one of his best friends. I really had no way of knowing until some girl at school told me. They only made out and it only happened once, but he was really nice the two weeks I didn't know about because he felt really bad. When I broke up with him for it he was heartbroken. It was just a really bad mistake. 

But I believe with all my heart that people can change. I don't believe in "Once a cheater, always a cheater."

Ive asked his why he never calls me anymore or when we text he is really short and doesnt seem like he wants to talk.. and he just says he doesnt see any of this... he says what im saying is "bull"..  

I never had any real proof either but, it was like I just KNEW. Hard to describe. He really didn't act different or anything. After I did find out he was and that I had been right all along the only signs I could really sit back and realize for what they were was he wouldn't look me in the eye when he talked to me and that he wasn't really into sex anymore. He's been acting weird again so, I know how you feel on those "suspicions". I say go with your gut instinct.

Quoting courtann10:“ Has anyone ever been cheated on?? If you have, what are signs?? I never have, but i really feel like ... [snip!] ... asked him about it and he says hed nthis dont bwever cheat on me and he doesnt feel any differently.. i dont knooooow what to think =[”

if hes acting all weird like you say maybe those are signs but you never know...but i do know this dont think about it to much because its going to become an obsession...you do have to look into it though...and he should understand that preg girls have really bad mood swings im like that to...my husband and i fight like every day but yeah guez its normal....but always trust ur instinct


and have a serious talk wt him