re: I want to give the baby everything

I think its great that you have decided to give the baby to a family who can provide a better environment, however, I think you should make sure you are 100% happy with the family you choose. The decision you made is not always an easy one and I'm sure if it was me and I had doubts, I would always worry. Before I allow my daughters to be baby sat I need to make sure I love the baby sitter otherwise all night long I worry. I don't want you to have to worrylike I have for a night over if you made the right choice for the rest of your life.
I would suggest asking them questions to get a better feel for both of them and their hopes for the future, and then make your decision. While I believe your gut instinct should never be ignored, I do believe it needs to be supported with more then just instinct. Just follow your heart and know that you are doing a very brave and wonderful thing for your baby and the lucky family you choose. You can never guarantee a perfect life, even for your own children sometimes, so just follow your heart and do what you think is best!
Good Luck!

I would follow your gut instinct. A mother's intuition is usually right.
I think you are very brave to give your baby up, and I respect you for wanting to give your child a great life. Find another family. Good luck!

Did you rent Juno?

Quoting MissImEricka:“ Did you rent Juno?”

LOL

Trust your gut instinct, because it is probably right. Find a different family to adobt your baby.

Quoting oddish:“ Everybody has been praising me over my decision to give the baby up for adoption. I know that I would ... [snip!] ... safe about this man? I want to do the best thing for this baby, but I don't want to put her in any danger. What should I do?”

i no ur yound and arent ready for a baby but before you sign any papers maake sure ur choosing the right decesion. because once you hold that baby in ur arms everythink changes and instant love comes outa nower. u might change ur mind! hope this helps  

i think you should go with your gut. i am a mom of several children wanting to adopt a baby girl. I think you are making a very brave decision but you need to feel comfortable that your baby will be in a safe home. i think the baby should always know that he/she has two moms. one that gave birth and one that raised him/her. Will this couple give you any contact or pictures thru out the life of your baby? You have the right to decide who will raise your baby. There are plenty of people that want children that don't have millions to adopt a child from another country. Make sure it is love, not status quo that makes them want to adopt. Ask for references or do a background check. Your baby is worth it.