I am so depressed!

my boyfriend and I were planning on getting married, the plans have happend so fast it was just a couple of days ago when we started talking about it, and the best time for me is this weekend (I leave for MA in two weeks) plus my dad has the day off of work so he can walk me down the aisle, the only problem is his parents dont want to drive down to Las Vegas (8 hr drive) just to watch us get married. So because they HAVE to stay the whole weekend he doesnt want to do it. He said he would ask his parents if they could take one day off so that they could stay the weekend but when I asked him this morning he said no, so I asked him right out if he wanted to marry me and he said no.
I am so depressed!

sorry its long and gets to no point.
I am just so depressed!

I am sorry honey! That's really rough. I hope you feel better soon!

Im really sorry to hear that. I kno it gotta be hard. Just keep ur head up. It will be ok. Just pray. I will pray for u. Maybe he just wants to wait. Did u ask him why he changed his mind?

Quoting BabyJJ:“ Im really sorry to hear that. I kno it gotta be hard. Just keep ur head up. It will be ok. Just pray. I will pray for u. Maybe he just wants to wait. Did u ask him why he changed his mind?”

Yeah he says its going way to fast, which I understand but thats the whole point...or at least it was when we 1st started talking about it.

wow - i would be crushed. i am actually speechless. i dont know if i would WANT to marry him ever. that is so horrible. good luck sweetie.

Well good news!!
Now he is going back to wanting to get married I guess he was just nervous and plus his parents couldnt have came (dont get me started on that) but now he told me he wants to start planning he doesnt want it to be random, he thinks that later on I will be sad I didnt give it real thought. So I hope it happens soon but there is nothing set in stone yet we are choosing the dates now.

Quoting *QuEeN bItCh 801*:“ Well good news!! Now he is going back to wanting to get married I guess he was just nervous and plus ... [snip!] ... I didnt give it real thought. So I hope it happens soon but there is nothing set in stone yet we are choosing the dates now.”

glad to hear he's come around but marriage is serious bizness. not something you can turn off and on like a light switch. hope you feel comfortable that he understands that. good luck sweetie!