hes the biggest asshole ever!!!!

so today me and ryleys dad planned on talking tonite and i told him to come before 7 becuz that when i get ryley settled down for bed. and he didnt want to. i asked him y and he wanted to go be with his friends!! so we argued about it and he hung up the phone on me. and i told him everything i do now is around her schdule, and then he was like y does she have a schdule shes a baby. thats a stupid question. so then i told him to just call me when hes ready to not make everything about just him anymore. well he came over a little bit ago and i was still mad and we barley talked and he left after 5 mins becuz she wouldnt stop crying but she did as soon as i held her. he just pisses me off that he still thinks this is all about him, and its not.

Yea, you just need to get your child support filed for and move on with your life.

Quoting Ryley's Mom:“ so today me and ryleys dad planned on talking tonite and i told him to come before 7 becuz that when ... [snip!] ... stop crying but she did as soon as i held her. he just pisses me off that he still thinks this is all about him, and its not.”

Sounds like a dick to me. I agree with getting the child support filed and leave him alone, he is not even worth you trying to make an effort for.

File child support. As he watches the money for his child get taken out of his checks I am sure he will quickly realize that it is not about him anymore. What an ass you're right.

Quoting Mummy Olivia:“ Sounds like a dick to me. I agree with getting the child support filed and leave him alone, he is not even worth you trying to make an effort for.”

yeah thats exactly what my sister said, she said shes had the last straw with him making me cry and i need to stop being nice to him and get child support and move on.

sounds so frustrating. I can't understand how anybody can take a baby for grandit!

Wow you 2......
Hubby and I have 3 going on 4 together and things are still about him.
Its bad to the point that if we go to the store and the kids get a toy he whines till he gets one also.
The storys long but in short I have had to send him packing many times and still do. 
I hope this is not the MO of a boy/male. 
It sucks to have to always be the emotionally and verbally strongest of the two. 
Girl all I say is raise you bar and keep it high,
either he meets you 1/2 way or more or its the road for him! 
Good luck! 

yep your sis is right the longer your being to nice to him the more hes gonna hurt you..it gets much easier once hes out of your life..trust me on that one..you both deserve better then that! pm if u ever need to talk i know how it feels.