Motivationless (vent)

Okay so lately me and my bf have been having a very rocky relationship.. I ignore the fact that he ignores me in every possible way if he doesn't need me to do something, I ignore the fact that I have a sprained ankle and he refuses still to help me out at home, I even ignore the fact that all he does in lay in the ac and play video games.. (I ignore it because if I talk to him about it, he'll find a way to make it some how my fault like all my/our problems are) but I cant ignore that he hasn't even tried to get a job.. He's soo used to jobs falling in his lap that he doesn't know what it like to look for one.. all thru my pregnancy he was always arguing with me to get a job.. I need to look for a job..He got a job when my son was 3 weeks old.. 3 weeks ago they offered him a promotion.. THE VERY NEXT DAY he gets mad because they got him at work too late and (despite the fact that I was trying to talk him out of it) he walks out on them.. now he has no job.. He's waiting on his brothers manager to come back from vacation so he could ask for a job.. I have not seen him EVER fill out an application to anywhere.. I do them for him.. then the dickhead has the nerve to say "Taking care of a baby isn't hard work, you need a job" now he sees how hard it is to take care of a baby and still won't help.. I'm getting really fed up, I don't know how to approach this subject to him so he'll listen but not get mad. Because if he gets mad.. forget it, he ain't listening.

I would just tell him 2 get the hell out and come back when he has a job and ready 2 take care of his responsibility

kick him out.. he sounds likea POS!!

... hes treating you like shit.. and plus if it a rocky relationship maybe a break would be good for the two of you!!

Sounds like he needs help finding the door. Being a momma is hard work girl!

A break would eventually lead to permanently breakin up and he said if that were to happen he's going after custody, I'm not about to get myself in this big ass mess and end up hating each other.. I wish he were the type to accept critism instead of shifting blame

Quoting Elie's ♥ Mommy:“ Okay so lately me and my bf have been having a very rocky relationship.. I ignore the fact that he ignores ... [snip!] ... how to approach this subject to him so he'll listen but not get mad. Because if he gets mad.. forget it, he ain't listening.”

i would tell him that he needs to needs to get his things together if not he needs to go well seriously he needs to go now cuz if its been going on for awhile and during your pregnancy when you need to be relax and clam for your baby well sorry to say i guess his doesnt care i think you should for you and your baby!