Desperate to concieve

ok if you were to read my profile oyu can tell that I have had a few hardships the the past few years. But anyways. The guy I'm with now is 25 and has a very good job. He also says he wants children in the near future. He is in the reserves at the moment which worries me that I'm going to have a child solo because he is deployed. We haven't used condoms because we are both disease free. Personally i do not care for them anyway. He claims to have pulled out everytime but everytime he finished he stays inside and lays on top of me for a minute or so to catch his breath. So I am wondering if he is planning on me getting pregnant the same way I am planning on it. Also I started ovulation on the 24th of june and it ends sometime this weekend. We had sex 8 times on the 24th and 4 times on the 26th. should i be expecting a period? i hope not. i want this more than anything.


I AM NOT POSTING THIS FOR DRAMA JUST FOR SUPPORT...

i understand where you are coming from but at the same time you should prolly see things from my point of view. on my babies page i didnt post certain things cuz they embarassed me. i have been raped molested and sexually abused since i was 14 by multiple different guys. my first miscarriage was drug related but the guy also shoved my down a flight of stairs. the second miscarriage was an unknown reason i didnt do drugs but i was abused during the pregnancy but at the doctors office once they said the punch didnt affect it... 3 days later i miscarried. my third miscarriage i was homeless and scared. i was beaten, drugged,raped,molested and thats the nice things about it. so please before you judge know the whole story. i have not drank or done drugs since i started to ttc. and dont plan to.


The guy I am with is someone i truly care about and he cares about me. The only reason i posted about his good job was to state the fact that we are financially stable. I have been to rehab before i actually went last year. Like i said as soon as my insurance covers it i will return i also have an NA meeting tonight.

You should try to have sex every other day while you are ovulating so that his sperm count doesn't get too low. I've heard of more people getting pregnant that way.

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ ok if you were to read my profile oyu can tell that I have had a few hardships the the past few years. ... [snip!] ... sex 8 times on the 24th and 4 times on the 26th. should i be expecting a period? i hope not. i want this more than anything.”

I think if you want a baby so bad you should get your drinking and drugs out of your system. A child is not meant to be your "reason to quit." I wanted to be a mommy since I was little, but knew I wanted to be able to provided for my child as well. I waited until I knew I could give him or her everything they deserve. You are still young and obviously not ready. Please think about waiting until you are more responsible and able.

" I currently drink 2 liters of vodka daily, swallow about 50 mg of vicadin and inject 30 mg of valuim a day. "



.. If what you said in your about me is true, you DO not need to have a baby right now. Get yourself together first.

Quoting akay87:“ You should try to have sex every other day while you are ovulating so that his sperm count doesn't get too low. I've heard of more people getting pregnant that way.”

I hope this is the last tip someone gives to her on how to get pregnant.

Quoting *Brittanie*:“ " I currently drink 2 liters of vodka daily, swallow about 50 mg of vicadin and inject 30 mg of valuim ... [snip!] ... day. " .. If what you said in your about me is true, you DO not need to have a baby right now. Get yourself together first.”

I agree...I should have read your profile first, but until you can take care of yourself, you shouldn't even be considering having a baby. Drinking and doing drugs like that could make you have another miscarriage and I'm sure you don't want to go through pain like that again.

sounds like you want it for all the wrong reasons.

sad.

Quoting L♥vey:“ I hope this is the last tip someone gives to her on how to get pregnant.”

honestly i find that very offensive. i understand i have an addicition problem and and checking into a rehab center as soon as my insurance covers it. I am not quitting drugs for the mere fact of having a child i am quitting for myself and my family. honestly if you dont know me and dont know what ive been through please dont judge me.

Quoting *Brittanie*:“ " I currently drink 2 liters of vodka daily, swallow about 50 mg of vicadin and inject 30 mg of valuim ... [snip!] ... day. " .. If what you said in your about me is true, you DO not need to have a baby right now. Get yourself together first.”

god I hate to say this because I know miscarriges are horrable but

ughh DOINKYYIES no wonder you have miscarriged 3times. THe embryos cant even properly form with all the toxins your putting in you body.

Get clean, find a man you LOVE not just some older guy with a job. Get settled in your life and then start trying to have a baby.

A) It's a public forum. You are going to get opinions you don't like.

B) I'm glad you are going to rehab for youself. Thats good. But please wait until you are clean and sober to bring another life into this world.

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ honestly i find that very offensive. i understand i have an addicition problem and and checking into ... [snip!] ... i am quitting for myself and my family. honestly if you dont know me and dont know what ive been through please dont judge me.”

No one is judging you. Everyone read what you put in your profile and if you do all of that every day like you said, are you expecting people to wish you good luck? It's great that you are going to rehab and trying to get your life together, just get it together and get healthy before you try to get pregnant.

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ honestly i find that very offensive. i understand i have an addicition problem and and checking into ... [snip!] ... i am quitting for myself and my family. honestly if you dont know me and dont know what ive been through please dont judge me.”

I don't really care if I offended you. You are going to cause serious harm to a child! You have had 3 miscarriages, probably during your drinking and drugs. I don't feel bad for you, just your children!

I just looked at your website. You had all of your previous miscarriages due to drugs and alcohol. I can't say this enough. You need to be 100% clean before you even start trying for a little one.

Your only 18...

I was devistated when I found out I was pregnant. I had so many goals and dreams, tons of plans to explore diffrent parts of the world, experiance diffrent things. Now I am stuck in this god forsaken hillbilly land, I wont be going to Europe and south america with my friends... My dream of being a college professior is def out the window. I HOPE I can go to college to become a highschool teacher at least.

Quoting Amanda_Beth:“ honestly i find that very offensive. i understand i have an addicition problem and and checking into ... [snip!] ... i am quitting for myself and my family. honestly if you dont know me and dont know what ive been through please dont judge me.”

No, obviously since school let out, you have a lot more time on your hands during the day....so you figure you'll cause some drama on some chat boards....this is a drama-free area. You wouldn't seriously post all that in your about me if you weren't looking for attention.  Please take it somewhere else, like the drama corner? Move along.


Melissa