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posted 28th Jun
we got marriedfeb 32006..when we were 18..and got pregnant with our son 6 months later..he was born april 7th 2007. I was taught to fall in love then get married and then get pregnant.. i am not going to lie it was hard at times but i was a virgin till my honeymoon..
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I'm due July 28th, have 1 child & live in Mississippi
posted 28th Jun
We're weird, we were talking about having a kid before we had a wedding in the first place. We had set our time to concive and had even picked out names. And then bam I'm pregos. Notice I said a wedding, not get 'married' neither of us believed in signing a piece of paper, pay $60 and having the state say ok now you guys love eachother. But we ended up having to do that anyway. So on mothers day last year, his mom who got ordanded (sp) online signed the papers. There were no I dos nothing. She even post dated the papers because she didn't want to share the holiday. I have no clue what the papers say as far as the day. we only did it because I needed to get on his health plan. But we're having our wedding this sept and that will be our wedding aniversry. I know we're weird!
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I have 1 child & live in Washington
posted 28th Jun
Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ Just curious. I see a lot of young women on here (myself included) who are married. Just wondering if ... [snip!] ... which I said no, then 2ce after I got pregnant, lol. I said yes finally and then we got hitched after our daughter was born!  ”


I'm 18 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend and i talk on the subject but its not something we're by any means rushing into. Having a child is a HUGE step as it is and marriage coming only b-cuz of it makes for an incredibly stressful situation. We certainly didnt plan to get pregnant but we're excited about the situation and when marriage is discussed adn decided upon we want to make sure it will be forever, not because we had too
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I live in Oklahoma
posted 29th Jun
I was 9 1/2 wks pregnant when we got married, but we were planning on getting married next year anyway. We got married the day after our 6 yr anniversary so it's not like it was a flip thing. We've been living together for 3 1/2 almost four years as well so...yeah lol
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I have 1 child & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 29th Jun
Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ Just curious. I see a lot of young women on here (myself included) who are married. Just wondering if ... [snip!] ... which I said no, then 2ce after I got pregnant, lol. I said yes finally and then we got hitched after our daughter was born!  ”

i ended up getting married when i was pregnate. i later found out the guy only married me so he wouldnt have to pay child support. but i moved back in with my mother cause he hit me when i was 8 months pregnate. now i have to do more divorce papers cause the jerk moved out to ohio. he never tried to make vists to see his son. my boyfriend mike has known me since i was 14 and his been here for my son the month before i had him and hasnt left our side.  
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I have 1 child & live in Maine
posted 29th Jun
Well....my husband and I started dating towards the end of our senior year. He asked me to marry him, told him that I wanted to wait. Asked me to marry him again on the last day of school,...I told him yes. Found out we were expecting a few weeks after graduation. Got married at the end of that month, not really because of the baby but because he was leaving for the Army and wanted to know that I would be here when he got back....
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I have 1 child & live in Vilseck, Germany
posted 29th Jun
No we did not marry because of a pregnancy. We got married March 28, 2007 and I got pregnant sometime in November 2007.
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I live in Georgia
posted 29th Jun
 Although we were going to get married eventually anyways, we (or I should say I) hurried and planned a wedding in 6 weeks after we found out we were expecting. So I guess a litte in between!
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I have 1 child & live in Davis, California
posted 29th Jun
I am not married, but I was engaged a few months before I got pregnant. We are not going to rush to get married just because I got pregnant. We get shit from some family members about it but oh fucking well.
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I have 1 child & live in ?
posted 29th Jun
I am 17. I was married when I was 16. We talked about it before I was pregnant. We were married when I was 13 weeks.
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I have 1 child & live in Delaware
posted 29th Jun
Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ Just curious. I see a lot of young women on here (myself included) who are married. Just wondering if ... [snip!] ... which I said no, then 2ce after I got pregnant, lol. I said yes finally and then we got hitched after our daughter was born!  ”



We were engaged and going to get married this summer before we found out we were pregnant. So we got married about 4 months sooner than we would have. Not that big of a deal at all. We wanted to make sure Cheyenne would be on this birth certificate and she would have his name and all that jazz and plus being married when she was born but we were going to get married 4 months later anyways.
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I have 1 child & live in Alabama
posted 29th Jun
We got married in june of 2007. And 3 months after our wedding, I became pregnant in october. It came as a big surprise to the both of us...Lol. I wanted to wait a little longer to have children but oh well  
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I have 1 child & live in Maryland
posted 29th Jun
Just seems kind of sketchy that so many young women are like "Oh we didn't get married because I was pregnant..but I was 3wks preggo when we did." Like seriously..? And I'm really not trying to start drama..but it just seems odd that so many 15 and 16 year olds were "planning" their weddings when oops! They got knocked up. That might sound bad and I'm sorry, I don't mean it to be. My husband proposed 4 times before I said yes. Then we waited until after the baby came to get married.
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I have 2 kids & live in Midlothian, Virginia
posted 29th Jun
Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ Just seems kind of sketchy that so many young women are like "Oh we didn't get married because I was ... [snip!] ... I don't mean it to be. My husband proposed 4 times before I said yes. Then we waited until after the baby came to get married.”

No, I agree.
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I have 1 child & live in ?
posted 29th Jun
Quoting Mrs♥Ladylike:“ Just seems kind of sketchy that so many young women are like "Oh we didn't get married because I was ... [snip!] ... I don't mean it to be. My husband proposed 4 times before I said yes. Then we waited until after the baby came to get married.”
Yeah it really does.I really didn't know that 15 year olds were even allowed to get married. If i had a daughter and she got pregnant at 15 i definitely wouldn't let her get married. I remember when i was that age all the boyfriends i had and i swore that i would marry so many of them. i was totally wrong..lol.. i dont think that alot of the 15 year olds that say their married, are actually married.
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I have 1 child & live in Maryland
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