re: Quote I heard today...pissed me off kinda...

Quoting LittleTee22 ☮:“ I concur. I was actually married at 18 (YIKES!) and we've been strong for 2 1/2 years. I don't think age really matters, not every 18 year old is a dumbass.”

 I was married at 19 and we just celebrated our one year in April. We have been dating since 2004 though and I know our relationship is strong. In fact I would say were doing better than some older people.

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ Put it this way then... Do you have to "work" for the love with your son? No it comes naturally. Its ... [snip!] ... Its always there. You DO however have to "work" for the relationship you have with him. You have to "work" as the parent.”

You stop making so much sense! You stop that right now!!   You're good.

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ Put it this way then... Do you have to "work" for the love with your son? No it comes naturally. Its ... [snip!] ... Its always there. You DO however have to "work" for the relationship you have with him. You have to "work" as the parent.”

that makes sense as well I suppose lol...but the love I have for my son and my husband are soo different so I never ever really comapre the 2...I still think you have to work at love, because with so many things like baby, financial issues, what not...love can become blurry, it can become not so clear at times and you may even doubt your love...therefore you have to work FOR the love between you and your husband to keep itstrongya know? But I do get what you're saying..

Quoting Alyc716:“  I was married at 19 and we just celebrated our one year in April. We have been dating since 2004 though ... [snip!] ... dating since 2004 though and I know our relationship is strong. In fact I would say were doing better than some older people.”

Andrew is so lucky to have you and your husbee as parents!!

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ that makes sense as well I suppose lol...but the love I have for my son and my husband are soo different ... [snip!] ... you have to work FOR the love between you and your husband to keep itstrongya know? But I do get what you're saying..”

You have to work to "see" it but it will always be there. A million things can come between the two of you but love itself will always be there somewhere. I know the risk of my husbands job and if he didnt come home I would still love him. No work involved.

Quoting LittleTee22 ☮:“ Andrew is so lucky to have you and your husbee as parents!!”

Thanks!! How is baby #2 cookin? My sister is due a day after you!

Quoting LittleTee22 ☮:“ I concur. I was actually married at 18 (YIKES!) and we've been strong for 2 1/2 years. I don't think age really matters, not every 18 year old is a dumbass.”

lol Try this: Me and my husband are 22 and our oldest daughter is 5 yrs old. 7 years and we are still very much in love. I know a lot of people find it hard to believe but we are and always have been in love. Both our families even agree. They say we were made for each other.

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ You have to workto "see" it but it will always be there. A million things can come between the two of ... [snip!] ... be there somewhere. I know the risk of my husbands job and if he didnt come home I would still love him. No work involved.”

well going by what you're saying then...is it impossible to fall out of love, since it's always there? Also, will you only ever love one person then?

Quoting LittleTee22 ☮:“ You stop making so much sense! You stop that right now!!   You're good.”

haha PURE LUCK! Thats all it is. Usually I am the opposite of everyone else lol

I got married at 19. . I took marriage classes, read books, and talked to people that had been married for a long time. (I wanted to have tools in our relationship) I also have watching my parents who have been married for 26 years. Love isn't always a feeling sometimes it's an action. Meaning Love is work. Relationships are hard. Lust is easy and though you do need it in a relationship Intimacy keeps a relationship strong and yes that does take work.

I don't think Love is easy I think it's very difficult at times. But so worth it!

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ well going by what you're saying then...is it impossible to fall out of love, since it's always there? Also, will you only ever love one person then?”

You can fall "out" of love but the love will always be there somewhere if you really did love them. You can have love for someone without being "in love" with them. Love also isnt restricted to one person. There is no limit to the amount of love someone can give.

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ Vanessa Hudgens...(just some Disney star I believe from High School Musical)...anyways, I was watching ... [snip!] ... financial struggles, a baby, marirage, whatever else and that calls for alot of work...what do you ladies think??”

Hmm, depends. I think RELATIONSHIPS are hard work, just becuase life gets in the way. YOu have to work to make time for each other, work to not let stresses and outside influences affect your marriage. I dont think the actual connection and love you have for each other should be hard work though. Being with my husband is NEVER hard work. It is by far the easiest relationship I have ever been in , there is no struggle for repect, love, kindness and we work like a great team.

I don't think love takes work, but a relationship does. For example, I can have a work relationship with a person, but never love them.

It took little to no effort to meet or fall in love with my husband. I had no control over meeting him. We just got lucky and had orders to the same place! My first thought was "I'm gonna have his babies". Well, 7 years and 3 kids later... LOL!

This fool is my best friend and I love the shittles out of him. We aren't going anywhere. We'll be changing each other's Depends one day and I can't wait! I asked him at what age men start gardening (b/c old men always have a flower garden..LOL).

she should've said 'real loves comes naturally.'