my due date...

Well my due date is coming up it wouldve been July 13th...and i cant stop thinking about my baby. Its been so hard for me and my fiance. We've been to counsling..Im on zoloft Its just all too much. Im so mad that this had to happen to us, Im so upset. Because we are such good people and i know everything happens for a reason but its just not fair. My fiance is taking me our of town the weekend he wouldve came to a day spa and the movies and to eat and stuff and i know hes hurt too. I just cant stop thinking about i couldve been almost due..and it hurts so bad. =( sorry i just needed to let some stuff out and my friends dont understand.

Wow I can't imagine how hard it would be to go through a loss like that. You and your finace will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Iam so sorry for you loss you should do something like write the baby a letter and tie it to a ballon and let it go in a park or something it might make you feel better thats what i will be doing.

You and your fiance will be in my prayers. && if you would like to talk more about it just PM me.

My birthday is July 13th  

I am feeling for you right now. I was due the same day. Try and keep your chin up.
That is good that you and your fiance are doing something nice on the weekend you were due. I am so so Sorry.

Mzs me3 me3 - that is a great idea with the balloon.

you know what i just realized the angel baby thing went through yay i think that mothers should have the option of putting their angel babys up im glad mara went through with it not that i have lost a child but i would be great for the ones that have
edited to say: i know this has nothing to do with the topic but i just wanted a place to put this without starting another topic

Quoting GABERS MOMMY:“ Well my due date is coming up it wouldve been July 13th...and i cant stop thinking about my baby. Its ... [snip!] ... i couldve been almost due..and it hurts so bad. =( sorry i just needed to let some stuff out and my friends dont understand.”

Im feeling the exact same way!!! My due date is 7/12/08 and I had my son at 20 weeks pregnant. It seems we were going through the same thing at about the same time. Sorry for you loss as well!

Quoting M'Lissa:“ Im feeling the exact same way!!! My due date is 7/12/08 and I had my son at 20 weeks pregnant. It seems we were going through the same thing at about the same time. Sorry for you loss as well!”

Im sorry about your loss also..yea my son was born at 21 1/2 weeks.

Sending support hugs your way.

I lost my son at 18 weeks. The days leading up to his due date were really hard, especially since a friend of mine was due the week before me. Now every time I see her daughter, I think that Jonathan should be the same age.  

What helped me the most was journaling.... "talking" to him through writing really helped me get out all my feelings (most of which were me apologizing to him.... ugh, guilt, it sucks). Anyways,my husband and I talk about Jonathan whenever one of us is down and missing him, and this helps to reassure us and also keeps him alive in our memories. We try to visit his site (where he is buried) about once a month. I also took strength in making a promise to him, so I feel like I am working toward something for him.

Thanks so much, i also am very sorry for your loss. It just hurts and i cant help but think wow i couldve been 9 months already and gabriel could almost be here.

honey i'm in the same boat as you except i was due last july 22nd so i'm thinking wowo my aiden would be a year old this month. it sucks and i have heard you never get over it but i am here to talk if you need it.