re: orgasm problem (Help)

Quoting victoria hays A BOY:“ don't feel bad . at one point icouldn't have an orgasmunless i was on top . and some times i still have that problem . but right now my problem is that i can't have one at all . ”

It's probably because your organs are getting all moved around and squished on you and where his finger, tongue or penis hit months ago hit the wrong places. Don't get to frustrated, because as I have found out...sex can mean so much more then an orgasm.

Quoting Mrs. Matthew Dale:“ Oh no, I don't fake them. We've been having sex for about two years and have never faked one. He knows ... [snip!] ... for a girl to orgasm from sex. He tries his best and I'm more then happy to satisfy him then using all his energy trying for me”

ya i know what you are talking about right now .
my husband know i can't have one . so i try my best to make him happy , ... he loves it........ i don't get sexually pleasured out if it like having orgasm .. but i do enjoy just laying back and making love to my husband and watching himandmaking love to him .. dose that sound wierd

Quoting victoria hays A BOY:“ ya i know what you are talking about right now . my husband know i can't have one . so i try my ... [snip!] ... .. but i do enjoy just laying back and making love to my husband and watching himandmaking love to him .. dose that sound wierd”

They do make weird sounds and weird faces. Last time he made this face like it hurt....lol.

from what i would think your body is changing so much during pregnancy it would seem to me it would be normal not to....

as for me...i have never had an orgasm during intercourse...  we have tried everything....every position...im hoping since i can;t now maybe that will be a plus for me when im pg

haha I have the same problem! well somewhat, it takes longer and it can't be sex. I used to be able to get on top and yay I'm done when he is but now he has to work at it or I just take care of myself... for me I think it's the extra weight I've put on and I dont have as much energy so working at it doesn't work... it sucks. my husband just keeps telling himself it'll be over soon it'll be over soon...

Quoting **HappilyMarrIed**:“ from what i would think your body is changing so much during pregnancy it would seem to me it would be ... [snip!] ... we have tried everything....every position...im hoping since i can;t now maybe that will be a plus for me when im pg”

okay. try a vibrator on your clit while he is in you. I never orgasmed until we started trying that. Just be patient though. It can still take awhile.

My husband is GOOD in bed and I always felt horrible (I'm sure he did too) because I couldnt' get off and I'd have to finish the job. Now we've got it down good. It sometimes only takes 10 mins.  

Before it might have taken 50. I'm exhausted by then.

ya
a faw months ago my husband told me i just don't enjoy it like i ues too .but he can stillget off no matter what .......becaues for some reason he like watching me when i'm on top ,

but i'm hoping i go back to normal after the babys born ,