re: CHEATED ON BY BABY'S DAD AND EXTREMELY DEPRESSED

Quoting Mommy2Bella:“ And as for feeling like all your friends have a good man..... trust and believe honey!!! We've all had an asshole or two!!!”

Hell or three or four, lol. You gotta go through the bad to appreciate the best one when he finally finds you.

Quoting Mommy2Bella:“ My ex-husband left me for my ex-best friend! They moved to California together, and I thought I was ... [snip!] ... by that asshole, selling myself short! If he hadn't have left I would have never met the wonderful man I am married too now.”

At the time it seems like the end of the world doesn't it? The girl he cheated on me with had a little boy and was really looking for a baby's daddy since her bd was such a dirt bag, she knew he didn't want to leave me so she got "pregnant" and when he confessed about her and the future baby I left him and she "lost the baby" a month later   Idiot fell for that. Thank God he was an idiot, my life has turned out soooooo much better!

Quoting Kai aka Deuce's Mommy:“ At the time it seems like the end of the world doesn't it? The girl he cheated on me with had a little ... [snip!] ... the baby" a month later   Idiot fell for that. Thank God he was an idiot, my life has turned out soooooo much better!”

Karma is a bitch right?! LOL. When my ex cheated on me and got the girl pregnant, I got rid of him and she did actually have the baby but she wasn't all wonderful or so much better then me like he thought, lol. So he tried to come back to me and I was ummmm no! I did concider it for like .02 seconds, and then I was like man...you betrayed me, I cannot trust you and we are officially going through a divorce. I'm not trying to backtrack with you. Thank GOD I didn't because I met my current husband a year later and he is freakin' awesome and my life, like yours, couldn't be better!

OP...sometimes stuff like this happens so that the asshole can keep it movin' and the real deal can step in!

Quoting Kai aka Deuce's Mommy:“ At the time it seems like the end of the world doesn't it? The girl he cheated on me with had a little ... [snip!] ... the baby" a month later   Idiot fell for that. Thank God he was an idiot, my life has turned out soooooo much better!”

Omg! Almost the same story.... I am sooooo thankful I didnt try to chase after him. After we got divorced, which I paid for and he didnt even show up, he called and asked me could we work shit out! I was like hell no I am married again and 7 mos pregnant!!! Never heard from him again.

Quoting Zack & Zari's Mommy:“ OP...sometimes stuff like this happens so that the asshole can keep it movin' and the real deal can step in!”

SO TRUE!!!! I have a husband women would kill for now! AND...... this may sound crazy but I appreciate him sooooo much more than I ever would have if I hadn't have been through what I did.

Thank u all.... The thing that is really bothering me right now is I can't stop thinking about it. It just keeps running thru my head all day. I know that only time will tell what holds for me in the future and only time may heal all wounds but it feels like that'll take forever. So I'm just really depressed and I'm considering talkin to a therapist or counselor. I'm already feeling physically sick because of the whole situation and I'm scared that it will get really bad to the point where I end up in the hospital from being overly stressed.

Quoting Mommy2Bella:“ SO TRUE!!!! I have a husband women would kill for now! AND...... this may sound crazy but I appreciate him sooooo much more than I ever would have if I hadn't have been through what I did.”

I understand completely. My husband is awesome, so even though my ex hurt me really bad, and all my other ex's for that matter, I am glad they did because all those shitty guys led me to the one awesome guy. We have our ups and downs like any other couple but we are mostly up and he never misses a chance to let me know he loves my stinky panties! LOL.

Quoting ♥e.:“ Thank u all.... The thing that is really bothering me right now is I can't stop thinking about it. It ... [snip!] ... situation and I'm scared that it will get really bad to the point where I end up in the hospital from being overly stressed.”

Talking to someone may help you a lot. Like I said, my ex husband cheated and got another girl pregnant too. Now, me and that girl have sons that are 7 months apart. And it hurt to be going through a divorce being pregnant too. I felt like I was losing everything. But I just had to keep remembering that the child I was carrying was the most important thing in the world and I would not let my relationship situation minimize that.

Quoting Zack & Zari's Mommy:“ I understand completely. My husband is awesome, so even though my ex hurt me really bad, and all my other ... [snip!] ... downs like any other couple but we are mostly up and he never misses a chance to let me know he loves my stinky panties! LOL.”

LOL stinky panties!!! Your a trip!

Lol, the "stinky panties" part made me laugh. Hmmm u don't mean stinky panties literally right?

Quoting ♥e.:“ Thank u all.... The thing that is really bothering me right now is I can't stop thinking about it. It ... [snip!] ... situation and I'm scared that it will get really bad to the point where I end up in the hospital from being overly stressed.”

I can't give you an actual time limit.... but I read somewhere that the healing time on relationships is half the time you spent in it. IDK if thats true or not. Go to www.watch-movies.net and watch the movie "Someone Like You", with Ashley Judd. It's the best "breakup, hope for the future" movie out there lol.

Quoting Mommy2Bella:“ Omg! Almost the same story.... I am sooooo thankful I didnt try to chase after him. After we got divorced, ... [snip!] ... and asked me could we work shit out! I was like hell no I am married again and 7 mos pregnant!!! Never heard from him again.”

OMG...my ex did the same thing two months after my son was born and then again after me and my current husband were married! He tried to tell me, when I told him, ummm no I am remarried to someone much better the you now, he says well it hasn't been that long you can get that anulled! So I asked him what makes you think I would even want to do that especially for YOU?! And he says to me...oh whatever, you know he's not hittin' it like I did!   
I had to hurt his little feelings. I told him well if you are referring to how my husband lays pipe, the answer is SWELL and please believe he isn't hittin' like you USED TO, he's knocking it out much better! He hung up the phone in my face and I haven't heard from him since. That was in 2002. Or 2003...I dunno...I just haven't heard from the fucker since, lol.