3:30 am still not home

so my boyfriend has been going out alot lately and he always goes with people that i trust, but he is getting in the habit of not coming home untill after 2am and last week he didnt show up untill 6am (because the guy driving didnt want to leave his house) and tonight he said he was going out and i asked him to please be home before 2am. and now here i am waiting up for him and it is 3am. i just dont know what to do about this i know he isnt cheating on me but i'm sick and tired of him being out this late. and when i try to talk to him about it he blows me off or says that it's not a big deal or that it's not his fault that he is out late all the time. i dont want to fight with him but i dont want to get walked on either...can anyone help me i'm going crazy here

Quoting *kels*:“ so my boyfriend has been going out alot lately and he always goes with people that i trust, but he is ... [snip!] ... all the time. i dont want to fight with him but i dont want to get walked on either...can anyone help me i'm going crazy here”

ugh my bf does the same thing, exept now we have our baby. tell him to get his ass together if he knows whats good for him because when u have the baby evvverything changes and he's got to be more responsible and be back when he says he will... i mean what if it was an emergency and u couldnt reach him?? guys are really selfish sometimes.. =[ sorry if i sounded a little bitter .

Quoting *kels*:“ so my boyfriend has been going out alot lately and he always goes with people that i trust, but he is ... [snip!] ... all the time. i dont want to fight with him but i dont want to get walked on either...can anyone help me i'm going crazy here”

Let him know that staying out so late is not conduscive to your stress level. You stay up worring about him and it is RUDE to be out so late. I made my hubby act pregnant with me. He didn't drink while I was pregnant and he didn't go out without me and since I didn't want to go out...

As Devils Advicate, is it possible he is getting some pre-daddy jitters? You may want to ask him that. Wait until he is sober and in a clear state of mind so you don't argue.

thats super disrespectful. The only thing you can really do is try to talk to him about it. Sorry but there is not any reason to be out till 3:30 unless your out at a bar.. and most bars in Fl close at 3.

With me and my gf i dont go out but i stay up late till about 4:30am playing games and dowloading music i know it annoys her but i like to stay up late n stuff
She asked me if i can only do it a few times a month when her mum is on a night shift i agree'd to it and now we are both happy about the set up we have.

Just ask him if he can only do it on the weekends or something like that guys need time to go out n be stupid its just what we do, but ask him polightly to do it only on the weekends, im not sure if this will help but who knows it might

My husband doesn't go out.
But he dose stay up all night playing that game world of warcraft . I use to have a problem with it. Until I just ask him if he could do it on weekends and not weekday. And it work out good. Just ask him and if that doesn’t work tell him to get his shit together. Tell him you would like to go out with your friends, and it’s not right if he is always out with his and leaving you at home. Good luck.

P.S
WHY ARE MY LETTER SO SMALL SORRY FOR THAT ...

Quoting victoria hays A BOY:“ My husband doesn't go out. But he dose stay up all night playing that game world of warcraft . I use ... [snip!] ... right if he is always out with his and leaving you at home. Good luck. P.S WHY ARE MY LETTER SO SMALL SORRY FOR THAT ...”

never mine i see they got bigger

Quoting victoria hays A BOY:“ My husband doesn't go out. But he dose stay up all night playing that game world of warcraft . I use ... [snip!] ... right if he is always out with his and leaving you at home. Good luck. P.S WHY ARE MY LETTER SO SMALL SORRY FOR THAT ...”

He plays WoW? Lol as a gamer i personally hate that game because every one i know who plays is is quite a filthy person to be around bowls stacking up rotting food ect ect but as long as you keep him in line lol its ok