Am I TTC or not???

So someone PM'ed me and said I should change my TTC since Feb 08 since I'm not actually TTC right now. This is the deal and I'd like some opinions on what you all think!

I first TTCed in Feb 08. Found out in April I was pg. Miscarried in May. And am currently waiting one more cycle before we TTC again. So we are actually using condoms right now.

So am I TTC since Feb 08 or not TTC at all??? What is your opinion???

Just put what you want to put. Technically I've been TTC since October 07 but since I didn't even have a period til June of 08 I just put May.....it's complicated.

I would leave it the way it is until you are pregnant.

i say leave it TTC! Good luck  

yes, you are still ttc... you are mentally prepping yourself right now, and waiting for your body to be in preggo condition...I'm sorry for your miscarriage, and am sending you baby dust!!!!

You're still in the TTC process... Sometimes, and unfortunately so, that includes losses and playing the waiting game. I say leave it, if that's the way you want it.

I say you are TTC. You want a baby and are doing the wild thing so you are TTC. You're being smart to wait one cycle since thats the least they recommend after having a ms. Sorry for that but good luck next time

you are TTC  

Yes. IMO, you should tell the person that PM'ed you to mind their own beeswax!

Leave it as Feb. You were trying and had an issue and now you are still trying but you're waiting for another bump in the road to pass but you haven't given up.

Quoting JessJess:“ You're still in the TTC process... Sometimes, and unfortunately so, that includes losses and playing the waiting game. I say leave it, if that's the way you want it.”

i agree

what the hell is their problem? why do they care if you are putting it off for one more cycle or not... you are still TTC, but not thats its any of their damn concern!

Quoting Jynefir Dyan:“ what the hell is their problem? why do they care if you are putting it off for one more cycle or not... you are still TTC, but not thats its any of their damn concern!”

exactlyy

Quoting Baby Hugg A Tree:“ I say you are TTC. You want a baby and are doing the wild thing so you are TTC. You're being smart to ... [snip!] ... being smart to wait one cycle since thats the least they recommend after having a ms. Sorry for that but good luck next time”

Thanks! Just as an fyi... I just finished my first cycle after the mc and am waiting for another. I don't really know why except that's what my doc recommended for my physical and emotional state. I truly feel emotionally ready to ttc right NOW, but we're gonna do everything exactly as suggested. Don't want to have anything to feel guilty about later if something didn't go right...

I cant believe anyone was nosy enough to PM you about that.
Thats awfully bitchy