When everyone around me is Prego, and i'm not!

I am having trouble dealing with the fact, that it seems like all my friends are expecting, some of my family members are expecting, and there are 16 couples at my church that are expecting! I had a m/c in feb and we are TTC since March... it is just frustrating to me. I want to be happy for them because its a wonderful thing that is happening to them, but I want to experience that same happiness!!

*NiCOLE

Don't worry,it will happen..Baby dust.

Quoting Nikole3250:“ I am having trouble dealing with the fact, that it seems like all my friends are expecting, some of my ... [snip!] ... for them because its a wonderful thing that is happening to them, but I want to experience that same happiness!! *NiCOLE”

When I had my first m/c me and my bff were both pregnant at the same time and spoke every morning on the phone about all this pregnant stuff then I lost the baby. The phones calls were so akward you know but I just tried to be happy for her but it is hard cause thats always on your mind is your baby so I know what you mean. Hang in there hun. Your time will come.

BEEN THERE!!!!

We TTC for a total of two years with a m/c after 10 mo. of trying. I know 49 couples that got pregnant in those two years. Let me rephrase that 49 pregnancies... some ofcouples had two babies in that time. some of the couples in our church tried for one month and BAM pregnant! It was so irritating. I didn't think it was ever going to happen... adoption started to look really good. Finally after two full years I found out I was prego in May. Keep your faith and seriously give the burden to God. When you are at wit's end just ask him to carry it for you. Until I truly gave it up it didn't happen.

Quoting Nikole3250:“ I am having trouble dealing with the fact, that it seems like all my friends are expecting, some of my ... [snip!] ... for them because its a wonderful thing that is happening to them, but I want to experience that same happiness!! *NiCOLE”

THATS HOW I FEEL ALSO...JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP..AND KEEP TRYING

Quoting Nikole3250:“ I am having trouble dealing with the fact, that it seems like all my friends are expecting, some of my ... [snip!] ... for them because its a wonderful thing that is happening to them, but I want to experience that same happiness!! *NiCOLE”

gotta keep on, keepin on  its hard, i know..it seems like everyone i know right now, is with child..you really never know what there story is though..they could have been having troubles themselves..no matter what..i am always happy for them..i always smile for them because i know when it is my turn, there will be others who will smile for us that may be going through the exact same thing i am..you just never know..

god has his plans for you, for a reason..

when i had my mc last year me and my aunt were both preggo at the same time she was due a month after. when i lost it i was devastated but i'm stil keeping my hope alive you have to relax and try to do the same!

You are just going to have to keep your faith. I have been TTC since October '07 and it seems like everyone around me is getting pregnant. It is really hard to be happy for them when you know how badly you want it to happen to you and it just won't. Keep your head held high and congratulate all of the women around you becuase you would want them to do the same for you.

I feel like that every day.
The only thing you can do is just keep trying.
Good luck.

I feel the same
It seems like all my friends are pregnant, or recently decided to try.
my partner has inforced a TTC break on us, and I dont know if he has changed his mind totally and 2 is all he wants.
It sucks
I always think if i got pregnant in the first few months of ttc i would be like half way now. My friends have all found out the sex of their babies and I am so happy for them but depressed at the same time.
I feel so incomplete.
I told my DP from the very start I wanted 2 of my own, and always have. So including his daughter that would make three. He was happy with that, It hurts so bad that Im sitting here bawling because I seriously think since I didnt get pregnant when TTC (it put a huge stress on our life because he was so insistant on trying for a boy so everything was so calculated) and now with the stress hes having at work he has decided its all over.
I love my daughter with all my heart and I live for her, she is my everything and for him to just tell me that he doesnt want to TTC and thats it, every time i try and discuss it he basically changes the topic. The least he can do is talk to me.

My period was due on Saturday and its now wednesday and i dont have it yet. Usually I would have been testing for about a week now, but I know that I have no chance of being pregnant but I debate testing because i want a miracle (that isnt gonna happen because we havent BDed at all)

Quoting TTC for far too long:“ I feel like that every day. The only thing you can do is just keep trying. Good luck.”

I totally agree. Been there.

I MC in Feb 2008 as well, and it took 3 motnhs to get AF..I thought something was terribly wrong with me, and all the while, more of my friends were announcing their pregnancies or learning the sex of their babies..it was very hard..We're TTC again, and I just have to be patient...Wishing you luck and strength to be strong and support those around you.