venting *kinda long*

So the DH and I had a fight today. Here are some things you need to know.
1. We are TTC
2. We had a miscarriage in April
3. AF was due today...no sign, no cramps...still waiting
So the fight was stupid, but it was like he wasn't taking my feelings into consideration at all. He thinks I'm being irrational. Well OF COURSE i'm being irrational! I'm having horrible mood swings, and I don't know if it's b/c AF is due, or because i'm pregnant! I'm tired of waiting, and I'm terrified of getting a BFP, because i'm so scared i'll miscarry again! You would think he would keep this in mind and not yell at me! But does he? No, he just yells, and I was just trying to discuss the matter very calmly. I have so much stuff jumbled up in my head right now...it's all I can think about! Am I?? What if I am?? What if I'm not??? I'm going INSANE!!! Anyway, sorry! Just had to get that out b/c i tried talking to him again, and it still isn't getting me anywhere. He just has no idea what i'm going through right now.

DH was the same way when we were trying - when we REALLY talked about it, it was because he was so stressed about the whole thing too and he didn't know how to deal with it, so he freaked on me! Men don't understand, because to them its just a matter of finding out yes or no for sure. They can't understand how it feels to not know for sure whats happening in your own body!

Quoting Mommy of a giggler!:“ DH was the same way when we were trying - when we REALLY talked about it, it was because he was so stressed ... [snip!] ... of finding out yes or no for sure. They can't understand how it feels to not know for sure whats happening in your own body!”

I'm sure you're right...it's just that i really don't need the added stress right now & i wish he could be a little more considerate. thank you though, i'm glad someone understands 

Quoting Shortcake718:“ I'm sure you're right...it's just that i really don't need the added stress right now & i wish he could be a little more considerate. thank you though, i'm glad someone understands ”

No problem! Men are missing the special gene that makes them think about these things, but if they had it they would be women  

I tihnk the only reason he is getting upset is because he is just as scared as you are.
Men don't like to show emotion so it normally comes outas a fight.
And I think he understands more then you think he does.
Good luck.