im confuse

im 16 years old...and i want to have a baby..i know im too young but i really want one..i have a bf and we been together for a year and 7 months..i talked to him about having one and he said yea...whenever im ready he is..his 21..im confuse cuz i want one but yet at da sametime i wnna go out and party,,what do i do?

get on birth control, your not old enough for a baby, your still growing up yourself

Your 16... go out and party!!! I could say more.....

You're not ready for a baby. What's there to be confused about?

Quoting yezet:“ im 16 years old...and i want to have a baby..i know im too young but i really want one..i have a bf and ... [snip!] ... yea...whenever im ready he is..his 21..im confuse cuz i want one but yet at da sametime i wnna go out and party,,what do i do?”

Stop being a moron!

Why is it always "I want it and I want it now!!" with some girls?

Bah.

If you can't decide between partying and having a baby I would say, enjoy being a teenager... Have a baby when you are older...

Have you asked your parents what they thought about this?

this feeling will pass...I would stay on birth control because babies are alot of work and cost alot. Wait a few more years. You need to think in terms of whats good for a baby, can you provide and go to school and work???? When you become a mom it's not what you feel its all about the child.

you're 16...live your teenage life before having a baby. If you dont know whether you want to have a baby or to party then you shouldn't even be considering it.

Just be a teenager!!

Quoting yezet:“ im 16 years old...and i want to have a baby..i know im too young but i really want one..i have a bf and ... [snip!] ... yea...whenever im ready he is..his 21..im confuse cuz i want one but yet at da sametime i wnna go out and party,,what do i do?”

Grow up, and close your legs what is there to be confused about?! Your too young to be thinking about having a baby

Well you deff cant do both
And hes 21 and your 16? Some states thats illegal
And he could go to jail for a longggg time
Dont do it
Keep your legs closed and take some BC
Actually take several methods of BC
Its not a doll
Go buy a puppy

I've wanted a rocking chair since I was about 5, but I didn't get one until recently. By rocking chair I mean baby. You're 16. What's the legal age for sex again?

Lets see...staying up all hours of night partying with your friends or staying up all hours of the night sleep deprived with baby crying in your ear for hours? How about spending your money on clothes for yourself or spending every last dime on the baby and no new clothes for you ever?

I would say hold off on the baby thing you have lots of time for that enjoy beinga teenager b/c once a baby comes you CANNOT go partying anymore & your life revolves around the baby & it comes w/ alot of responsibilites and is financially hard so in my opionion you need to wait until you are older & more mature. You will understand this more when your older trust me