Advice????

Since we lost the baby (long story) I haven't been able to enjoy sex because we tried to get pregnant for so long, part of the fun of sex was knowing that maybe I would get pregnant (is that really weird???) Well now everytime we have sex it just reminds me that the baby is gone or it scares me half to death thinking that I might get pregnant and have to go through all of this again. Plus I was reminded so much about how breasts were made to feed babies. When you think about all of that it really kills any mood I might be in. It's just so hard!!! (no pun intended  

Now it's like I have some sort of aversion to sex. I don't mind cuddling but I don't even want to be kissed anymore, has anyone been through this?

I have never experienced it but I understand how that could make you feel.
I am sorry for your loss.

It could be caused by post partum depression. I know that it is escalated by a loss and can cause all kinds of emotional problems. I am so so sorry for your loss, and I hope things get better for you. But in the meantime ask your doc about it......

Quoting buzymummy:“ It could be caused by post partum depression. I know that it is escalated by a loss and can cause all ... [snip!] ... problems. I am so so sorry for your loss, and I hope things get better for you. But in the meantime ask your doc about it......”

I do agree with this.  

I can also see how you would feel that way.  Not only do you have the normal post partum hormones that make most of us feel like never having sex again, but you lost your baby.  It's scary to think you could go through it again, and hopefully it will pass.  Give it time, you've not had much yet.  I know the loss won't get easier (well I can imagine it won't) but you might be able to have sex again some day.  It's always there, the loss and sadness, but it gets better.

Sorry for your loss
but the hurt never goes away i loss a little girl
most likely in your sub conscience your worried
if you do fall pregnant something will go wrong (with The Baby)
i was worried all the way through my pregnancy
after i loss my little girl
cos i had another little girl 15 months
after lossing her
well good luck with every thing
just tell your self
"every thing will be alright"