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I am sorry you have to go through this   I hope you guys are able to work it out,

My goodness honey.I can't even begin where to start for you, or any encouraging words. That made me kinda upset for you... I saw the whole thing played out while I was reading... I hope everything gets better for Faith's sake.

awwww. wow.

Well first I am sorry.
It was very inconsiderate that he didn't bother to call and say he would be late. On top of the fact that he was with another girl

I wonder why he didn't want to answer your questions? Probably because he didn't want to be the bad guy, no one wants to be the bad guy.

Quoting Faithie's Mama Jeanne:“ I posted the other night about a fight my husband and i had. its been happening a lot lately. Last night ... [snip!] ... that made me remember how much love we had... apperently all that love was used to make faith and now we are out of it..  ”

Aww, i soo wish i could give you a hug, Dont blame yourself i dont see that you did anything wrong. What you did was super romantic in fact. I think your hubby needs help if he is hanging out with teenage girls in the dark instead of being home with his wife and daughter.

Good Luck i hope you guys can work everything out

 Im kinda going through a similar situation! I caught mine cheating. This is the 3rd time since Ive been pregnant that Ive caught him. Im sorry and I know it hurts so much. Im trying to figure out how to get over him and move on, I just worry so much about where he is and he doesnt because im pregnant and he thinks i cant have any fun,

How long have you two been married and/or together?

I'm sorry things don't appear to be working out, but I'm also so SOO proud of you for standing up for yourself and not letting him walk all over you!  

My DH had his divorce finalized in late '05. For almost 2 yrs before it ended they had emotionally separated and didn't even have sex those last years. Then one day the ex just said, "I don't think I ever loved you."  

Quoting Ashley9880:“  Im kinda going through a similar situation! I caught mine cheating. This is the 3rd time since Ive ... [snip!] ... him and move on, I just worry so much about where he is and he doesnt because im pregnant and he thinks i cant have any fun,”

3rd time?! omg...do you think he wants to be caught??

I know i feel so bad for faith. Ive been working so hard to keep this marriage together.. I even started doing therapy a few months ago to try and help. I mean... what have i done to the point where my husband doesnt even want to have sex with me... hug me... kiss me.... NOrmally in movies when they kiss he tells me, they are kissing we have to kiss... and he gets into it... big romantic kisses..hes always done that.. we watched a movie 2 nights ago and at the kissing scene i said that too him.. he pecked my lips... like "ugh if i have too"

I dont want faith to grow up in a broken familly like i did... I cant imagine not getting to see her EVERY day.. I know if jordan wanted too he could take her from me... it kills me to think of that

Quoting Faithie's Mama Jeanne:“ I know i feel so bad for faith. Ive been working so hard to keep this marriage together.. I even started ... [snip!] ... not getting to see her EVERY day.. I know if jordan wanted too he could take her from me... it kills me to think of that”

What makes you think he could take her away??

I wouldn't necessarily say it's over. I do think there are things you guys could both stand to work on. Sometimes it better to let things go until you are in a better position to handle them. I know how hard that is, but sometimes, if you calm down some before you talk, things may go a bit better. Plus, men are assholes. Us crying doesn't move them all that much after a while. Maybe you guys do just need to take some time apart, work on yourselves and then try working on your marriage. Him hanging around with teenage girls could just be his way of making himself feel like he's "the man", ya know? Having little girls idolize him or whatnot. I dunno...just a suggestion. I mean, if it was my husband, I would know he wouldn;t cross the line with any underage girls. So ask yourself that question...if you think he'd cross te line with underage girls, that an even bigger issue..bigger then you and him.

I really hope things get better though for you. But, I mean, this sounds like it should be able to worked out. He needs to try listening more and he really should have appreciated what you tried to do last night because the gesture was quite sweet of you.

Good luck hun!

I am so pissed right now! He's a fucking jerk. You don't deserve this! Hopefully you guys can get back together when he decides to stop acting like a child. He's being extremely selfish. Honestly Jeanne I think you are better off. I know you want things to work out becuase of Faith, but it's not fair for you to wait around while he attempts to clean up his act. You are way to nice of a person to be treated this way!

Quoting Faithie's Mama Jeanne:“ I posted the other night about a fight my husband and i had. its been happening a lot lately. Last night ... [snip!] ... that made me remember how much love we had... apperently all that love was used to make faith and now we are out of it..  ”

i'm sorry about the situation...but i think you know in your heart what is best for you and your daughter...good luck

im sorry hun   i really wish i could help... i really do *hugs* im here when you need to talk. you got my #

I know that he wouldnt do anything with them. hes not that kind of guy. but he is VERY easily taken advantage of and feels like he has to take care of all these women... then in the end.. his family gets left behind. im not as NEEDY as these girls are... im independent in a lot of ways...

He could take faith because of my "mental health" I am bipolar and on meds but he has no issues what so ever. also im the SAHM... i have no job.. he makes all the money, that was his choice but i mean... how am i going to support her when i havent had a job in over a year and he can pull the mental health card..

weve been married almost a year... in september.. We got married on our 3 year anniversary..

and as for the cheating 3 times.. id kill him.. that is just.. wow..