re: Officially Seperated..is the big D coming?-long-

Awww Jeanne I am so sorry *hugs*
I TOTALLY feel ya though.....I am thinking of seperating from Chasten right now too...he has been SUCH an ass lately!
He thinks he is fucking Father of the year when it's NOWHERE even close to that!!!
He is a selfish lazy prick and I am OVER it!!!
PM me anytime if u wanna chat!!

P.S. I havent got no booty in a LONG time so I can relate on that one too!! I swear I am SO over men that I am about this close to turning gay!

Quoting Tasha^Nika:“ I'm sorry honey. I'm here if you need me and if you ever want to talk. I've been a single mother since ... [snip!] ... just doesn't work. But I wasn't married. I hope you guys come to some kind of conclusion, for your and Faithie's sake. *hug*”

thank you honey! Its been pretty rough. But i have faithie to keep me company and give me lots of love!

Quoting Somer ♥'s Aiden:“ Awww Jeanne I am so sorry *hugs* I TOTALLY feel ya though.....I am thinking of seperating from Chasten ... [snip!] ... no booty in a LONG time so I can relate on that one too!! I swear I am SO over men that I am about this close to turning gay!”

yeah i was telling alicia how i should have been a lesbian instead of bi... life would be MUCH better!

Quoting Faithie's Mama Jeanne:“ thank you honey! Its been pretty rough. But i have faithie to keep me company and give me lots of love!”

Remember hun, single mother doesn't mean lonely mother *hugs*

Quoting Tasha^Nika:“ Remember hun, single mother doesn't mean lonely mother *hugs*”

Yeah i know. Just i do really love him and i mean... in september will be our 4 year. Hes really the only thing i know. I know i could do it but im scared.... shitless!!!

Quoting Faithie's Mama Jeanne:“ Yeah i know. Just i do really love him and i mean... in september will be our 4 year. Hes really the only thing i know. I know i could do it but im scared.... shitless!!!”

He needs to wisen up and get his priorities straight.

Some teenage girls are unpredictable. What's he going to do when one of them accuses him of something he didn't do for whatever reason. I've jsut seen this happen before, plenty.

I think he needs you trust your intuition on this.

Quoting Tasha^Nika:“ He needs to wisen up and get his priorities straight. Some teenage girls are unpredictable. What's ... [snip!] ... didn't do for whatever reason. I've jsut seen this happen before, plenty. I think he needs you trust your intuition on this.”

i told him that when he wanted to drive the girl home in december.... if she accused you of pulling of to the side of the road and sticking your hand in her pants no one can prove you didnt! so then when he said he was sitting with that girl i told him we've already had this conversation.. what do you want to do end up in jail??? you really want faith going around saying my daddies in jail? he just lookedat me like i was stupid but ive heard of it happening LOTS!

What happened in ur situation? u dont have to telli was just curious.

Quoting Faithie's Mama Jeanne:“ i told him that when he wanted to drive the girl home in december.... if she accused you of pulling ... [snip!] ... like i was stupid but ive heard of it happening LOTS! What happened in ur situation? u dont have to telli was just curious.”

Oh it's hardly anything that's hidden from the public, was all over the news at some point.

As an adolecent I used to live on an island called malta, it's a tiny thing south of sicily. Well, I had these two acquaintances, an older guy and older girl. Girl = 16 guy - 20.

Well the guy I had known for ages, I was 15. He was a very generous person and being that I had a habit of getting into trouble, he would always help me out. To the point of where he even took me in to live with him for a week, I got his bed, alone. He took the sofa.

Well, the girl lived downstairs and he lived upstairs. She had a crush on him for quite a while. Well one day, or evening rather, she fights with her guardian, she was an orphan and was adopted. She runs out, (later she told everyone he beat her senseless, he was a huge guy, gym owner, had he beat her, it'd be very evident, all everyone heard was screaming). Basically he goes off to work, he was still a cop at that point, she comes back and just hangs out in the lobby downstairs. The guy comes home from work - finds her, she's shaking, he invites her for a cup of tea. He was British, a cup of tea might as well be 'hello'. So they start spending time together. He takes her to the movies, they drive out to secluded places to look at the stars.

Bam. Something happens, and he doesn't want to see her anymore, I doubt that they were dating to begin with, he took me out to eat, movies and for hikes all the time. Well she freaks at him. She starts telling everyone that he raped her, violantly, numerous times and that he had been sexually abusing her for ages before.

Boy did that story end badly. His life was ruined. I'm guilty of judging him too, I won't lie.

Well, after a while, she gets raped again, and then again and then again. A bit of a pathology, and there was one, she was a pathological lier. She put 6 men, yep count 'em, 6 through hell.

She never went to the police, apparently was afraid of the consequences and such, that the guys would decide to hurt her. She used rumors to pretty much wreck a good 2/3 years out of each guy's life.

One of the guys she accused was a childhood friend of mine. We were even dating at the time when she accused him but it was a long distance relationship. He said she'd take off her clothes in front of him and would come on pretty strongly and he admitted that yes he was tempted but he never touched her. This girl I was actually somewhat friends with afterwards, but she had never said anything about him raping her, when she did it was over, I knew he couldn't have. And then some time down the line her scheme was wrecked when a guy she tried to accuse, the possible 7th victim, well actually she did accuse him, but she was quite idiotic to, as they spent the evening at a club, and the whole night was on video tape, and they went home with friends separately. Apparently he had dragged her to the bathroom - she did go, but he never followed. He was in photographs with friends, there was a concert that night with different bands performing so it was all tracked down to minutes.

Me and that guy had dated for 6 months, and he never even attempted to touch me inappropriately.

Mind you this isn't the only story I've to tell it's just the most drastic one.

But that first guy, he's the one whose life never got on track, he started drinking and was in an accident, and physically he'll never be the same person again. His dad disowned him and so did his mum, no one spoke to him, he lost his job, it was bad.

This possibly has lots of typos and erros in it as it's long and I typed it between working out >.< But you'll get the gist of it

Quoting Tasha^Nika:“ Oh it's hardly anything that's hidden from the public, was all over the news at some point. As an adolecent ... [snip!] ... has lots of typos and erros in it as it's long and I typed it between working out >.< But you'll get the gist of it”

thats crazy! hope she got what she deserves thats for sure!