3 1/2 month pp belly:(

Here you go ladies. I have actually not lost any weight since kiley was 4 weeks old ive actually gained 5. i count my calories and gain i eat like crap and i keep a steady weight. wtf??? anyways here you go any pointers let me know. and no i have not been working out i just moved and my fiance says no walking or jogging without him because he doesnt know the neighborhood but he wont get his butt up to go with me. so im making him buy me a treadmill. i hope i keep motivated.

Nice front view.


me grabbing it. watch out it might bite!! lol


me just sitting there.


side view: i still look pregnant 


and last me showing off my lovely love handles.



there you go. im still 160lbs and that doesnt look good on a girl that is 5 foot tall. ive only lost maybe 15-20 lbs and want to atleast get 20 more lbs off before my wedding in october. so any advice on diets or exercise fell free topost  thank you!!

a healthy balanced portioned diet is best. and i think thats looks good for 3 months. it took awhile to get the weight on, so it will take awhile to get it off. losing it too fast can be dangerous, so slow and steady is fine   good luck.

It just seems everyone i know is almost back to their weight but me. and im getting depressed about it. never have any clothes to wear having to wear being so cautious of what i eat. depressing 

My mom always told me that most women will take about 10 months to get back to normal. I never lost all of mine, but pretty close to it. You figure it takes 40 weeks to put it on. It's going to take time!

dont stress on it..and seriously ive learned that if you watch what you eat you have a bigger problem losing the weight.. i never watch what i eat..i just eat what makes me happy.. i was 125 pounds when i got pregnant and im sitting at 164 pounds right now.. after i have my son i plan on eating what i want and when i want..and just walking or swimming everyday.. even if it means going to the mall or something and walking for an hour with my son..and ill be living in a new place to. im moving from Vero Beach to Kentucky.. so i dont know the place and im scared and i know that my boyfriends going to be to.. so just find a nice place to walk..and malls are always nice when it comes to being a mom..just dont bring to much money lol

Quoting alex:]:“ It just seems everyone i know is almost back to their weight but me. and im getting depressed about it. never have any clothes to wear having to wear being so cautious of what i eat. depressing ”

awwe dont feel bad. i gained 35 lbs and lost 25 right away, and i was so excited, and i atedecent and everything, but before i knew it i gained back 20 lbs of the 25 i lost. i felt like shit after that. so i know how you feel. it's a rough transition for your body with all these changes and stuff. but dont worry about the scales, worry more about how you feel about your body, thats what really matters. i dont suggest weighing yourself until you are happier with your body, because you will just be a lb watching instead of working on the areas that need worked on.

and i forgot to dd, youre prolly working back some stomache muscle too, so that would make you gain weight.

Seriously dont feel bad because I cant get under 150 and Im 9 months post preggo. I was 128 pre-preggo and I cant shed these last 20 lbs.  

Don't beat yourself up.

I have 13 lbs that will not leave!

It just stinks because everyone around me is smaller. and im so self conscious about it. I have a friend who is down to 139 and her baby is 1 month younger than kiley. I guess im just depressed about it. i dont feel sexy so i just want to be a bum and couch potato. i would work out if i could find a friend who would join me. i ask and ask anyone close to me even if i dont really know them and they all laugh and say im not working out blah. Ill just have to find a way around this.. just how..

Quoting alex:]:“ It just stinks because everyone around me is smaller. and im so self conscious about it. I have a friend ... [snip!] ... dont really know them and they all laugh and say im not working out blah. Ill just have to find a way around this.. just how..”

i know hun, i'm sorry   just try to tell yurself everyone has different body types, so weight doesnt matter.

you have a cute baby  

Quoting LAURA[its a boy]:“ you have a cute baby  ”

haha thanks  she is a mess already at 3 1/2 months. and she can be a drama queen.

girl, i just saw your engagement photos, dont even worry about your weight, you look great. who cares about what your belly looks like or whatnot, your whole body in general looks awesome. dont sweat the small stuff  

I am in the same boat as you... my belly is saggy still. I am a bridesmade in a wedding Oct. 10th, where I am the biggest girl (even though all the others had babys too they are tiny with no belly anymore). So I have been trying to lose it, nothing seems to be working though.