re: Please Help.....fertility options info ????

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ "you already have the prize trophy and another on the way!".. that was uncalled for I know but I also ... [snip!] ... the wrong thing.... From experience......(something you lack) Doesnt sound like she is ready to talk about adoption!!!!!!!”

Right because I told her that she needs to talk about adoption. I mentioned itin passing retard.   My god your dense! You for some reason think that I've been offensive for mentioning the word adoption. That's just dumb. You are being overly sensitive or just plain stupid.

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ ”

Look at you! So mature... I suppose you have nothing better to do with your time then be a childish twat.

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ Right because I told her that she needs to talk about adoption. I mentioned itin passing retard.   ... [snip!] ... I've been offensive for mentioning the word adoption. That's just dumb. You are being overly sensitive or just plain stupid.”

LOL....my gosh girl your nuts!!!!!
If I havent said many many times......TTC is a very sensitive subject!! From reading about her friend...adoption is not what she wants to hear right now...
Im pretty sure your the dense one....this thread should have been done soo long ago..but you wish to keep it going...LOL....and yep...its entertaining for me..so im gonna keep letting you know just how dumb and insensitive you would be to mention it to someone TTC who has not mentioned it first.
Trust me...your the stupid one here!!!

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ Look at you! So mature... I suppose you have nothing better to do with your time then be a childish twat.”

HAHA...pretty much...LOL...its fun!!

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ LOL....my gosh girl your nuts!!!!! If I havent said many many times......TTC is a very sensitive ... [snip!] ... insensitive you would be to mention it to someone TTC who has not mentioned it first. Trust me...your the stupid one here!!!”

You are creating a circumstance that doesn't apply to this situation. I didn't tell her to mention it or advise her to bring it up in any way. You are attempting to put words in my mouth that were never there to suit your own purposes.

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ ”

Good one. Can't make your point so your resorting to insults. Typical of someone who's lowbred, ill mannered and incompetent. I see you find the profile perfectly.

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ I know there are medications that can help with ovulation but since she's already doing that I really ... [snip!] ... really don't know. Has she talked to her doctor about the options avaliable to her? If nothing works there is always adoption.”

OP was asking..what could she say to her friend...
You said...if nothing else there is always adoption......what did you mean by that then...you just said it to say it??????

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ Good one. Can't make your point so your resorting to insults. Typical of someone who's lowbred, ill mannered and incompetent. I see you find the profile perfectly.”

Ohh...my point has been made...dont mention adoption to someone TTC who hasnt mentioned it to you first

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ OP was asking..what could she say to her friend... You said...if nothing else there is always adoption......what did you mean by that then...you just said it to say it?????? ”

No I said if nothing works there's always adoption and what I meant by that was that if nothing works they can look into adoption. No sure what your missing here. And so there's qualifying criteria for commenting a thread? I had no idea you wern't allowed to post whenever you wanted about whatever you wanted. Obviously she didn't see it as unnessary seeing as she replied to me.

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ Ohh...my point has been made...dont mention adoption to someone TTC who hasnt mentioned it to you first ”

And I didn't nor did I suggest it so your point doesn't apply. Sorry maybe next time.

What are things I should DEF NOT say to her... I dont want to upset her further andhaving 2 boys, just21mths old and a 3weekold newborn, I kinda feel like Im rubbing it in but I dont want to leave her feelingabandoned either... Please help.....
~OP~

You said...if nothing else...there is always adoption...
I said in response to HER question...Do not suggest adoption!!!!

Since that is your opinion...I think your opinion is stupid!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting Twinsontheway2008:“ What are things I should DEF NOT say to her... I dont want to upset her further andhaving 2 boys, just21mths ... [snip!] ... response to HER question...Do not suggest adoption!!!! Since that is your opinion...I think your opinion is stupid!!!!!!!!!!”

Ummmm what is my opinion exactly? That adoption is a good option. That's a stupid opinion? I never said she should suggest adoption soooo I really don't get what your saying... But to recap, my opinion that adoption is a good option when nothing else works is stupid. Is that correct?

PLEASE STOP THIS BICKERING!!!!!

It is really disappointing that when I was trying to get help and advice that you have turned this into a catfight!

I realise this is an open forum but I did respecfully point out to youboth back on Page 2/3 that maybe you should both walk away fromyou differences of opinion.
I was not trying to start drama or to make a bigger issue of the debate between the two of you over who said what, that was most insensitive, or who has more experience to be giving advice...
I was open to all advice.
but I am disappointed that the post was hijacked to become a catfight when I was genuinely looking for help/advice on how to be there for my friend...