whos wrong

yesterday i went shopping with my boyfriend and alot of the stuff i wanted he wouldnt let me buy cuz he said there too reveling..he thinks that anything above the kneeis bad..but i let it slide and just laughed it off..after the mall we went to his moms house and his sister and her fiance where there [i was wearing a v cut dress, but i had a shirt under and a tiny bit of cleavage] im a d cup so theres no hiding them..but i do try , well i guess his sisters fiance commented on the fact that my boobs were getting bigger..duh im breastfeeding..and his sister got mad and threw abig fit about it[at the timei didnt know why i was just guessing it was her hormones since shes 6 months pregnant] but anyway she told my bf today and he said that i should respect myself and that hes gonna go buy me clothes from now on, and i had to ask him before i wear something, so i got mad and told him no that im not gonna be the type to let a guy walk all over her..so he got mad and broke up with me....

i think all this is a bit ridiculous..wats your opinion

Quoting Frankie's Baby Mama:“ yesterday i went shopping with my boyfriend and alot of the stuff i wanted he wouldnt let me buy cuz ... [snip!] ... let a guy walk all over her..so he got mad and broke up with me.... i think all this is a bit ridiculous..wats your opinion”

i wouldn't let a man walk all over me..i think you're in the right but thats just me

I agree with you. You are a grown women and you have every right to choose what clothes you want to wear. He however as a grown man does not have to accept your choices and can disagree but he has not right to tell you what you can and can not wear or say that only he can buy your clothes. Sounds a bit too controlling to me and that scares me a bit...

fuck that!! i have d cup boobs too and you can not hide them! its not your faultyour boyfriend's BIL said that.

you guys broke up over it ? wow ! 
first its clothes then it will be food and then friends and then well who knows ! maybe you should start telling him and his family how to dress and how to speak to you in an appropriate manner !  

I don't think you are in the wrong at all. It's your body and your style. What does he want you to dress like, a grandma? lol If my bf tried to tell me I couldn't wear something, we would have a huge problem.

Quoting nikki 2 girls:“ you guys broke up over it ? wow ! first its clothes then it will be food and then friends and then well ... [snip!] ... knows ! maybe you should start telling him and his family how to dress and how to speak to you in an appropriate manner ! ”

hahaha that sooo true! me and my boyfriend fight about money, my son, and myspace becuase he thinks i'm cheating on him and talking to guys... haha guys are crazy

Quoting Frankie's Baby Mama:“ yesterday i went shopping with my boyfriend and alot of the stuff i wanted he wouldnt let me buy cuz ... [snip!] ... let a guy walk all over her..so he got mad and broke up with me.... i think all this is a bit ridiculous..wats your opinion”

yes that is ridiculous. keep your integrity and dont let someone tell you how to live YOUR life. And it is childish to break up with you over it. Because he cannot control you? What an ass! He will come back but stand your ground because if you dont he will get more and more controlling. You are your own person so make your own decisions. Dont be walked over.

Quoting Joshuasmommy:“ hahaha that sooo true! me and my boyfriend fight about money, my son, and myspace becuase he thinks i'm cheating on him and talking to guys... haha guys are crazy”

lol men are strange for sure . my man would never tell me how to dress he knows id then go out of my way to dress that way teeheehee ! 

thank you ladies. i knew i wasnt wrong, but at the same time he was making me feel like a hoochie or something

Quoting nikki 2 girls:“ lol men are strange for sure . my man would never tell me how to dress he knows id then go out of my way to dress that way teeheehee ! ”

lol I would so do the same thing, "what.. no this isn't a bra I'm going to the store in, its my new shirt"

naw u right.

yall are very very young, thats not a pattern i would even want to begin now cause it will only get worse