It been 6 months and I still got no sex drive whatsoever

It been 6 months since I give birth to my son and I still got no SEX DRIVE whatsoever. And I feel bad cause when I was pregnant I was at high risk pregnancy so the doctor say no sex, so for months the bf and I haven't had any sex and since our son was born, we hardly have any. It's like each time he try to touch me I feel sooo uncomfortable. I rather just sit and cuddle instead of having sex. Is there anything I can do to get my sex drive back? At one point I told my bf that I just give birth to our son and that I don't have any sex drive and hope that he understand what I'm going thru, he say he understand but I know that he also has needs too. So in the past 6 months, we had sex like 5 times and that's it.

Quoting xO_TiFFaNy:“ It been 6 months since I give birth to my son and I still got no SEX DRIVE whatsoever. And I feel bad ... [snip!] ... he say he understand but I know that he also has needs too. So in the past 6 months, we had sex like 5 times and that's it.”

I am in the exact same boat.  I don't know what to do.  I don't know if I should talk to the dr about it or what.  

I dunno what you can do, but I completely understand. Im not even at high risk and I have no sex drive. I wish there was some secret how to get it back I'd really like to know.

Quoting natesmomma:“ I am in the exact same boat. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should talk to the dr about it or what. ”

Most of the time that I did has sex with him, I feel like I did it just cause he wanted to and I give in, it's not like I WANTED to, it really suck.  

Quoting Sawyer's Mommy =D:“ I dunno what you can do, but I completely understand. Im not even at high risk and I have no sex drive. I wish there was some secret how to get it back I'd really like to know.”

Yeah I know, I really want my sex life back. Let see if there any more reply

Could it be that you are just scared?? I know you said you've done it 5 times....I dont know. I think your best bet would be to go to your doctor. They have medicine just like viagra but for woman. Hope that was of any help. Sorry i'm not that much help.

Quoting **_Yvette_**:“ Could it be that you are just scared?? I know you said you've done it 5 times....I dont know. I think ... [snip!] ... go to your doctor. They have medicine just like viagra but for woman. Hope that was of any help. Sorry i'm not that much help.”

I dont think that I'm scare, it just that each time he like touch me, I feel really uncomfortable, cause I know from him trying to touch me, he want sex and I didn't want anything to do with sex.

And you have NO CLUE as to why your feeling uncomfortable?? Are you still attracted to him sexually??

Quoting **_Yvette_**:“ And you have NO CLUE as to why your feeling uncomfortable?? Are you still attracted to him sexually??”

Seriously I really have no clue why I feel uncomfortable I just do. Like I rather just sit on the couch watch TV and cuddle instead. Like hugging him, kissing him, it's fine with me but the touching and stuff..don't like it. Yeah I'm still attracted to him, he still look hot to me.

I think that you might just have to give it time. Get more comfortable with him. Let him go further and further everytime. You dont have to have sex but get use to his hands on your body again. I'm not sure what else would help, but talking to your doctor about it.

Quoting **_Yvette_**:“ I think that you might just have to give it time. Get more comfortable with him. Let him go further and ... [snip!] ... have sex but get use to his hands on your body again. I'm not sure what else would help, but talking to your doctor about it.”

Thanks for your help. I don't know if I wanna go to my dr about since the last time I see him was at my 6 weeks pp appointment. Maybe I should give it time. I thought that after a few months my sex drive will be back and it hasn't and it been 6 months.

Quoting xO_TiFFaNy:“ Thanks for your help. I don't know if I wanna go to my dr about since the last time I see him was at ... [snip!] ... Maybe I should give it time. I thought that after a few months my sex drive will be back and it hasn't and it been 6 months.”

I have the same situation myself except I am 19 months PP and still don't have mine. I also was on pelvic rest my entire pregnancy for a slew of problems so I know exactly how you feel. I heard once on TV that the thing w/ sex is the more you do it, the more you want it. That makes sense...see we went so long not being able to we just got out of the habit of doing it. I learned to live w/o it and now it just seems like I'm too tired or whatever reason. I think the only way to get out of it is to slowly work back in to it. Try to set a date in your head to do it like once a week or even once every other week and slowly work your way back in to whatever pattern you had before. It would also be a good idea to talk to your doc like you suggested before. Obviously, I need to take my own advice...

Quoting brodyzmom:“ I have the same situation myself except I am 19 months PP and still don't have mine. I also was on pelvic ... [snip!] ... before. It would also be a good idea to talk to your doc like you suggested before. Obviously, I need to take my own advice...”

Thanks for the advise ma..I wish my sex drive will come back soon. I just thought that after I had Bryson, it will only be a couple months or so, but now at 6 months pp, I still don't even have the feeling to have sex or even think about it.