re: should i dump him?

There's no way in hell I would have a druggie as my baby's father .

not worth it.....kick him to the curb!

Trust me you don't need that shit..Kick his ass to the Curb!! There are alot nicer guys out there that will take tare of you & your little guy..I know it might be tough but you can do it!!!

Quoting Elissa Mclarty:“ don't call me a dumb a-s-s\ ....bitch”

i dont think she was calling you a dumb ass... i think she was refering to your loser baby dad

Quoting Elissa Mclarty:“ he's supposed to be sober with me.. and he keeps slipping.. and i mean extacy and shit.. and he hasnt ... [snip!] ... my babies daddy? fuckkkkk :'( do i leave him? we've tried talking shit over but i dont think he realizes how serious i am ..”

same EXACT thing with my. my bf and i have been dating for seven months, or were dating for seven months and i was five months. he's into the same exact things and not acting like himself at all.

i honestly believe that no girl should be treated that way, but what i realized was that this pregnancy is nine months long, and my boyfriend has been with my through it all. i guess you have to make a choice between your dignity and his behavior. one thing that you should probably realize is that if you truly love this guy, he is going through a life changing experience as well, with your baby in his womb. if he didn't act like this prepregancy, then maybe he is being affected by this whole thing. if there were a teenage guy who wouldn't act different and always be there, and be perfect to compensate for your raging hormones, then he would be the new superman. this is a life changer for the both of you.

BUT if you are intending to parent this child, then realize that if this is his behavior under pressure, then you do not want an unreliable father. if you truly want to parent then the child should come first, and if this guy is going to act like this as a father and co-caretaker, then you should be strong and make the right decision for your child.

i sympathize for you because i went through the same shit. same exactly as you were describing it. but it is easier for me to forgive because i know i'm not keeping the child and both our lives will hopefully go back to normal.

Quoting Elissa Mclarty:“ he's supposed to be sober with me.. and he keeps slipping.. and i mean extacy and shit.. and he hasnt ... [snip!] ... my babies daddy? fuckkkkk :'( do i leave him? we've tried talking shit over but i dont think he realizes how serious i am ..”

why not just leave him? obviously like you said he's been lieing to u, and doing all kinds of horrible things and not listening to you. it takes a boy to make a baby but a man to raise one. you would be doing the rite thing by leaving and not letting that kind of stuff put you or your baby in harms way. i wish you the best of luck gurl. i feel you. bye