Does he still Love me? or is he cheating?

So I've been with my hubby for 2 years. and in my first pregnancy he was wonderful! this is my second baby with him. And now he wount cares me, wont be sweet, we havent done it in a month. He wont talk that much on the phone with me. Im scared... I dont know if he is like this because of the baby, or is it me. I gained 40 pounds, and I just lost 10, from morning sickness   so is he like that because im fat? I dont know what to do. When I try to talk to him he tells me that im crazy and its all in my head. Whats going on?

magic 8 ball says "try again later"


hmmmmmmm have you asked him?

It could just be all in your head. I felt that way towards my husband during my pregnancy when in reality he was far from that. Hormones are crazy. I don't think he is cheating unless he is giving you other signs that were not listed.

I have tried to talking to him but he tells me that im to needy...

Might just be pregnancy hormones and what not making you needy...

Quoting Sway13:“ So I've been with my hubby for 2 years. and in my first pregnancy he was wonderful! this is my second ... [snip!] ... im fat? I dont know what to do. When I try to talk to him he tells me that im crazy and its all in my head. Whats going on?”

damn girl...i would just ask why he seems so distant. im sorrryyyy

It's the hormones...I would try having a conversation with him about it though and explain how you feel.

Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ It could just be all in your head. I felt that way towards my husband during my pregnancy when in reality ... [snip!] ... was far from that. Hormones are crazy. I don't think he is cheating unless he is giving you other signs that were not listed.”

No its all the same, he sits nest to me wont hug or kiss me, I try to hug him he tells me "Im hot" i want to rest. He doesnt work! how can he be tierd... we havent had sex in a month his excuse is... "I might give you twins"

Was this pregnancy planned? I know when we first found out about our second it was a SHOCK to say the leat and my husband became a jerk. He did get over it and was happy with in a month or so.

Maybe he feels his needs aren't being met, my husband and I planned all the pregnancys but during the second one I guess I pushed him away when he wanted to be physical. Needless to say I didn't relize i was hurting him everytime I pushed him away, and he didn't relize it hurt me everytime we did it. So this time around we have compromised and communicated. Best of luck hun

I do talk to him adn ask him, if he loves me and if he want s to be with me? he says YES... but i dont think he wants the baby... when I got my results that I was pregnant, and the weeks and by due date he said "I dont want to see that sh*t"

Quoting Sway13:“ I do talk to him adn ask him, if he loves me and if he want s to be with me? he says YES... but i dont ... [snip!] ... the baby... when I got my results that I was pregnant, and the weeks and by due date he said "I dont want to see that sh*t"”

You just answered your own question. He is feeling resentment towards the baby. I thought this baby was planned?

Quoting ~Deanna~:“ Was this pregnancy planned? I know when we first found out about our second it was a SHOCK to say the leat and my husband became a jerk. He did get over it and was happy with in a month or so.”

no this one or the first one werent planned... this is his 4th kid... Im 25 he is 42
he has 2 older ones and ours who is 15 months now this one...

Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ You just answered your own question. He is feeling resentment towards the baby. I thought this baby was planned?”

nope none of them were... He did tell me at first he never wnated kids and he never wanted to get married... I told him "Don't punish me for her mistakes"

Quoting Sway13:“ nope none of them were... He did tell me at first he never wnated kids and he never wanted to get married... I told him "Don't punish me for her mistakes"”

He probably does resent you for bringing another responsibility onto him. I mean he could've worn a condom you know. I am not sure I mean he doesn't seem like the talk it over type of guy. I am sorry. Good luck to you.